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Is Your Parent a Narcissist? 20 Signs to Know - Terri Cole

If you grew up with a narcissistic parent, you’ve likely experienced some behaviors that would seem totally crazy or even unbelievable to other people. You know first hand what it feels like to have your needs go unmet when you were a child. To feel invisible. To have to care for instead of being taken care of. To never be loved the way you needed to be loved. To a real narcissist, they are the center of all worlds. Not their family, not their spouse, and sadly, not their children. Having a narcissistic parent is one of the most incredibly painful experiences there is. Dealing with this through your developmental years and into adulthood can leave a lasting impact on… your self-esteem and self-worth, how you understand and manage your emotions, how you value your own needs and desires, the quality of all of your relationships (and, honestly, your life!) It can also be extremely isolating, because there’s a lot of societal pressure to have a great relationship with your parents and to respect them no matter what, right? Unfortunately, this is a topic that I get asked about a lot, and you know that I am dedicated to sharing anything and everything I can to raise awareness around mental health, to lessen suffering and to help you better understand yourself…so that you can heal. In this week’s episode, I pull back the curtain on narcissism and give you 20 real-life behaviors, signs and signals your parent might exhibit if they are a narcissist. Because you deserve to be seen. Grab the guide for this episode here: https://www.terricole.com/is-your-par... Sounds True Understanding Narcissism Summit: https://www.soundstrue.com/products/u... TIME STAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction from Terri 3:20 - 1: Narcissists are boundary bullies 3:41 - 2: They use codependency to control you 5:20 - 3: The love of a narcissistic parent is conditional 5:53 - 4: It's always about them 7:00 - 5: They are vengeful 7:30 - 6: They want attention 8:00 - 7: They are massive guilt-trippers 8:58 - 8: Narcissistic parents are competitive with you 12:25 - 9: They take credit for your accomplishments 13:26 - 10: They are thin-skinned 14:03 - 11: They are terrible listeners 15:00 - 12: They can be rude or critical 15:25 - 13: They are controlling 15:47 - 16: Narcissistic family systems are unfair 16:56 - 14: They gaslight you 18:15 - 15: They parentify you 18:49 - 17: They project 20:06 - 18: They do not have the capacity for empathy 22:01 - 19: They're always right 23:07 - 20: They are invested in outward appearances RELATED VIDEOS: How Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Can Survive and Thrive:    • How Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Can ...   Narcissistic Mother? 4 Protection Tips:    • Narcissistic Mother? 4 Protection Tips (so...   How to Create Bulletproof Protection Against Narcissists:    • How to Create Bulletproof Protection Again...   The Difference Between Being Self-Centered and Narcissistic:    • The Difference Between Being Self-Centered...   Scapegoat, Golden Child + More: How To Identify + Heal From Narc Family Roles:    • Scapegoat, Golden Child + More: How To Ide...   ABOUT TERRI COLE Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free and Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over 450,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see https://www.terricole.com/ CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: https://www.terricole.com/ig Membership: https://terricole.com/tcm Newsletter: https://www.terricole.com/newsletter RESOURCES Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency: https://hfcbook.com Boundary Boss Book: https://amzn.to/44DZID9 The Boundary Boss Workbook: https://amzn.to/3Ra7CRU Insight Timer: https://insig.ht/cpKnbJB4KDb (I have a bunch of free meditations on here and love this app!) BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/terricole I’m not currently taking any new one-on-one therapy or coaching clients, but highly recommend using BetterHelp to find a therapist that fits your needs. As a team, we have fully vetted BetterHelp's resources. https://www.terricole.com/gethelp/ -- If you are in a crisis or any other person may be in danger the resources on this page can provide you with immediate help. Please note: If you choose to sign up for BetterHelp or Insight Timer or buy through my Amazon links, I will receive a commission. Please know that I only recommend services and products that I know & trust. #terricoleshow #narcissism #narcissisticfamily