What ‘Rock Bottom’ Really Means and How It’s Keeping You Stuck скачать в хорошем качестве

What ‘Rock Bottom’ Really Means and How It’s Keeping You Stuck

If you’re a high-functioning drinker waiting for rock bottom to give you permission to quit, this episode will change everything. Most people think rock bottom is an external event—a DUI, job loss, or divorce. But that’s not what rock bottom actually is, and this misunderstanding is keeping you stuck in a cycle that never ends. In this episode, I break down the real meaning of rock bottom and why waiting for external proof is preventing you from taking action on what you already know. You’ll learn why comparing your life to other people’s disasters keeps you drinking longer, what to listen for in recovery meetings (hint: it’s not the external details), and why the question “Do I really need to quit?” is actually your answer. What You’ll Learn: • Why high-functioning drinkers misunderstand rock bottom and how it keeps them stuck • The “I’m not that bad” fallacy and why comparing external circumstances is the wrong measuring stick • What rock bottom actually is (internal, not external) and why it changes everything • How to recognize rock bottom moments before they become major disasters • Why people who don’t have a drinking problem never wonder if they need to quit • The real reason your brain keeps offering alcohol as a solution when things get uncomfortable • How lowering the bar and rationalizing red flags keeps the cycle going • Why you don’t need to wait for things to get worse to make a change Key Takeaways: Rock bottom is internal, not external. It’s not about what happens to you—it’s about the moment you realize you can’t live like this anymore, even if your life still looks good from the outside. You’re comparing the wrong things. When you compare your life to other people’s disasters, you’ll always feel like you’re “not that bad.” But when you compare your internal experience—the exhaustion, the mental gymnastics, the constant negotiation with yourself—that’s when you recognize the real problem. External events don’t create clarity—they force action. Most dramatic rock bottom moments are years in the making. There are a million smaller red flags that get rationalized away before the big event happens. You don’t have to wait for the big event. If you’re asking the question, that’s your answer. People without drinking problems never wonder if they need to quit. They don’t think about alcohol constantly, plan their days around it, or spend energy managing and moderating it. If you’re here listening to this, you already know. Episode Highlights: [00:12] The common misunderstanding about rock bottom that keeps high-functioning drinkers stuck [02:00] Why “I’m not that bad” only works if rock bottom is external (spoiler: it’s not)   [05:50] The AA meeting trap: comparing external details instead of internal feelings [09:33] What rock bottom actually is: internal, emotional, and the moment you realize you can’t live like this anymore [11:00] My two-year rock bottom and why I waited so long to take action [14:42] If you want to wait until things get worse, they will (and here’s what that looks like) [16:30] The small red flags we rationalize away that lead to bigger disasters [17:50] A client’s rock bottom moment: choosing a drink over playing with his son [19:19] Why asking “Do I really need to quit?” is actually your answer [21:31] The takeaway: You already know. Stop waiting for permission.   🔗 Links Mentioned in This Episode 💥 Dry January Bootcamp (Free!) Get structure, support, and a clear plan to start your alcohol-free life with power. 👉 addictionunlimited.com/bootcamp (https://www.myrecoverytoolbox.com/dry...) 🎯 Book a Private Call Ready to stop screwing around and get real results? Let’s talk. 👉 addictionunlimited.com/call (https://www.myrecoverytoolbox.com/you...) 🧣 Cozy Earth – My Favorite Gift to Give (and Receive!) Bedding + loungewear that calms and elevates your space. Use code ANGELA 👉 cozyearth.com (https://cozyearth.com)