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I’m Not Attracted to My Wife – What a Catholic Husband Must Do

“I’m not attracted to my wife anymore…” If you’ve ever thought that as a Catholic husband – even once – this video is for you. You probably wouldn’t say it at men’s group. You might not even say it in confession. But it shows up in how you look at your wife, touch your wife, and lead your home. In this video we tackle that head-on as a matter of vocation, not vibes or feelings. What we cover In this session we walk through: 👉 Why attraction isn’t a magic feeling …and why “I’m not attracted to my wife” is not a neutral observation, but a sign of deeper disorder. 👉 What actually killed your attraction …porn, fantasy, resentment, passivity, and chaos in the home – and how they deform how you see your wife. 👉 What to do if she really has ‘let herself go’ …how to address weight, health and appearance without cruelty or cowardice, and without making her your enemy. 👉 How to rebuild rightly-ordered desire …body (touch, presence, health), …soul (admiration, friendship), …grace (confession, Eucharist, sacrifice). 👉 A simple 4-week plan you can actually follow as a Catholic husband who wants to love his wife as Christ loves the Church. This is not about chasing teenage crush feelings. It’s about becoming the kind of Catholic man who can desire his wife in an ordered, sacrificial, masculine way. ⏱ Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: Not Attracted to My Wife Anymore? 00:24 - The Impact of Your Feelings 00:56 - Why Attraction Fades: It's Not Just Looks 01:32 - Three Things We'll Cover 02:04 - The Danger of Getting This Wrong 02:31 - Attraction Is Ordered Love, Not Just a Feeling 03:03 - Your Vocation as a Husband 03:34 - What You Owe Your Wife 03:39 - Chastity and Treating Your Wife as a Person 04:10 - Excusing Selfishness and Withdrawal 04:24 - Is It Really About Her Letting Herself Go? 04:48 - Coaching Example: "James" 05:14 - What Really Changed in the Marriage? 05:40 - The Effects of Lust and Resentment 06:14 - Four Silent Attraction Killers 07:07 - Porn and Fantasy: The First Killer 08:12 - Resentment: The Second Killer 09:11 - Comfort and Decay: The Third Killer 10:04 - Chaos in the Home: The Fourth Killer 11:20 - If Your Wife Changed Physically 12:14 - Addressing Health and Appearance Together 13:07 - Rebuilding Attraction: Body, Soul, and Grace 14:36 - Honoring Her Body and Femininity 15:08 - Admiration and Friendship 16:02 - The Role of Grace in Marriage 17:05 - A Simple Weekly Plan to Rebuild Attraction 18:06 - What to Expect After a Month 18:33 - Join the Patriarchy School Community 19:32 - Final Thoughts and Call to Action 20:21 - Outro: Sacrificial Love and Last Words 💬 Your homework In the comments (without shaming your wife), share which one hit you hardest: 🔥 Porn & fantasy 🔥 Resentment 🔥 Passivity & comfort 🔥 Chaos in the home Your honesty will help other Catholic men realise they’re not alone. 🔧 Get ongoing help – Patriarchy Skool & KnowlandBot If this exposed some uncomfortable truth and you know you need brothers, structure and daily formation, join us at: 👉 patriarchy.com Inside Patriarchy Skool you’ll get: 📚 Courses on headship, conflict, sex, money, fatherhood 🎥 Live calls & Q&A 🤖 24/7 access to KnowlandBot on WhatsApp (AI coach trained on my material) so you can get guidance in the middle of real situations I’m Will, Head Marriage Coach at Patriarchy.com. Married, 8 kids, practicing Catholic. Daily Patriarchy exists to help Christian husbands become virtuous leaders for their families. Subscribe, ask your questions in the comments, and I’ll see you in the next video.