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5 Ways to Know the Relationship is DONE. ✂️When to cut them loose!

If you are struggling in a dating relationship and not sure whether to cut them loose, or if the relationship will still make it, you are not alone! We've been there too, and are giving you 5 ways to know that it is time to cut someone loose. 5 Ways to Know the Relationship is DONE. 1. The effort isn't mutual. You find yourself doing most of the giving and the initiating (acts of service, gifts, calls/text/conversations, planning time together, physical affection). At first you might be ok with this if your pattern is to chase love, but long term will lead to burn-out and resentment as you are with someone who is not going to invest in you or your relationship. Cut them loose, and free yourself for someone else. You deserve someone who is willing to mutually give you energy, attention, and time. 2. Your most important values don't align. You don't need to change who you are (unless it's an UPGRADE and personally beneficial, then YES, change!) AND it's not fair to ask someone else to change who they are. If your most important values are either put-down, made fun of, ignored, or even continually creating conflict with another person, the relationship is doomed to struggle and conflict. Core values are things like being healthy, being kind, loving nature, being a family person, loving animals, being generous, being truthful, being adventurous, being safe, making money, relaxing, hustling, etc.....whatever top 3-4 guiding values you use to make decisions in your life, these are probably not going to change. 3. Trust is beyond repair. If you've been cheated on or betrayed, your trust is going to be very low in the relationship. Unless the person who broke trust is 100% willing to work hard over months (minimum of 6-8) to be highly accountable and desperate to earn your trust back, your relationship will never be healthy or thriving and there is a high level of likelihood they will do it again. It takes time and effort to build trust, and once broken it will take twice as long to rebuild PLUS a high level of willingness on both partners. If a person breaks your trust, you will find yourself anxious when they are gone, or when they don't respond to your calls/texts, or when any behavior seems inconsistent, and your mind will run wild. This is a very unhealthy state of anxiety to live in! Time to cut loose and build over with someone who is not willing to lose your trust, at all cost! 4. You never heal from your fights. When couples tear each other down in their fights, name-calling, disrespecting, saying hurtful or demeaning things, you can never take that back. There is so much damage done, and both people end up withdrawing. If apologies are never made, or you never come back to work things through when you are both calmer, you will continue to grow more hurt, more resentful, and more distant from each other over time. It will take BOTH of you to put effort and desire into healing from fights and learning to fight better, and if BOTH of you don't, the relationship will continue to get worse. 5. You are experiencing physical and/or mental health problems as a result of this relationship. There is no person worth sacrificing your physical or mental health over. If you have physical symptoms (stress, hair falling out, insomnia, anxiety, stomach issues, ulcers, getting sick more often, weight loss or weight gain) since you've been in the relationship, the Relationship is Done. It doesn't matter how much you love this person, LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH to cut them loose. Bonus, here are 3 reasons NOT to keep them in your life. 1. Because you love them. You love a lot of people, you have loved before, and YOU WILL LOVE AGAIN! Alcoholics love alcohol, but it kills them. Just because you love someone and are bonded to them doesn't mean that they are healthy or good for you! Love is not enough. 2. You're afraid of starting over. Yep, it's hard. But anything worth having in life is worth working for! Push past the breakers in the ocean and you'll find calm waters. Everything you want is on the other side of fear! 3. Not wanting to be uncomfortable. There will be some hard decisions to be made. It's easier to stay the same than to change. Change is hard, but so is staying in a dead, unhappy relationship. You are blocking the Love of your Life from finding you!!!!!! The longer you stay, the longer you delay your gift We are here to help you find and KEEP an amazing, healthy, loving relationship. Drop us a comment if any of this hit home for you, we love to hear from you! SUBSCRIBE for our next video, and give us a thumbs up if you appreciated this one! To your Success, King and Angela ------------------------------- FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM:   / loveheartbr.  . FOLLOW ON TIKTOK:   / loveheartbrea.  . SUBSCRIBE TO KING's YOUTUBE: https://goo.gl/cLuWgg ANGELA'S WEBSITE: www.angelamyers.net KING'S WEBSITE: iamkingprime.com