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Leadership Presence: Barriers and Strategies

Source: https://www.podbean.com/eau/pb-qws35-... Episode Summary: In this episode of Leadership Limbo, Josh and John continue their series on leadership presence by shifting from definition to diagnosis. After exploring what presence is, they now examine what disrupts it. Drawing from systems theory, personal leadership stories, and practical workplace examples, they unpack the subtle forces that pull leaders out of connection and into reactivity. The core insight is simple: presence is not something you add on. It emerges when you remove what is getting in the way. Josh reintroduces the concept of de-envelopment—a term Andrew Robinson brought into conversation—challenging leaders to strip away reactive habits rather than stack new techniques. When anxiety rises in meetings, conflict, or uncertainty, leaders default into predictable postures. Some over-function, over-explain, and hustle for affirmation. Others defer too quickly, distance themselves from decisions, or avoid discomfort. Still others push agendas forcefully, mistaking control for confidence. Throughout the episode, these patterns are connected to real leadership moments: rescuing instead of empowering, over-talking to secure credibility, withdrawing under pressure, or bulldozing conversations in the name of decisiveness. Each response is understandable, but each reduces presence and erodes trust. The conversation also names practical barriers such as distraction, physical absence, tone, lack of preparation, and disorganization. Presence is both internal and external. It requires emotional regulation and self-awareness, but also visible engagement and structured leadership behavior. The episode closes with practical strategies for cultivating presence in daily leadership: speaking last, limiting airtime, repairing strained relationships early, structuring meetings around learning, and embracing silence. Presence, they remind listeners, is not mystical. It is disciplined, relational, and built through consistent practice. ----more----Key Takeaways: Presence grows when leaders remove anxiety-driven reactions rather than adding performance techniques. Over-functioning and under-functioning are two common but opposite barriers to presence. Agenda-driven behavior often signals insecurity more than confidence. Distraction, tone, and lack of preparation communicate disengagement quickly. Presence requires emotional regulation and visible leadership discipline. Listener Homework: This week, identify your default anxiety response. Do you over-explain, defer too quickly, push harder, or withdraw? Choose one strategy from this episode to counter it. Speak last in your next meeting. Limit your airtime. Repair a strained relationship early. Shift a goal from execution to learning. Presence grows when you intentionally remove what blocks it. ----more----Timestamped Chapters: 00:00 – Recap: What Is Presence?Revisiting the foundation before examining what disrupts it. 05:30 – Reintroducing De-EnvelopmentStripping away anxiety-driven reactions instead of layering on new techniques. 12:00 – Over-Functioning and Hustling for WorthHow over-explaining and rescuing undermine presence. 19:30 – Distancing and Avoiding DiscomfortThe subtle cost of under-functioning and chronic deference. 27:00 – Agenda-Driven LeadershipWhen control replaces collaboration. 34:30 – Practical Strategies to Strengthen PresenceSpeaking last, limiting airtime, repairing early, and prioritizing learning. ---more--- Resources Referenced: Growing Yourself Up by Jenny BrownBowen Family Systems TheoryMultipliers by Liz WisemanDavid Whyte essays "Time" The PIQ Perspective – josh482.substack.com