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What Is a Boundary? And Why Family Crosses Them So Easily

What is a boundary—and why do family members so often cross it? In this episode of Boundaries & Banter, we sit down with licensed family therapist Bernadine Fried to break down what boundaries actually are, why they’re essential for mental health, and how family dynamics, in-laws, and culture complicate them. We talk about physical, emotional, and relational boundaries, why people-pleasing leads to resentment, and how to set limits without guilt or over-explaining. We also react to a real listener story involving a sister-in-law snooping through a phone at family dinner—and exactly how to respond when a boundary is violated. This episode is for anyone struggling with family boundaries, in-laws, people-pleasing, or feeling like setting limits makes you “the bad guy.” 00:00 – Welcome back + why we’re defining boundaries 00:26 – Meet Bernadine Fried (LMFT) 00:55 – What a boundary is (where I start/you begin) 01:20 – Physical vs emotional vs relational boundaries 02:52 – Why emotional boundaries create resentment 05:20 – Real-life example: midnight work call (no boundary) 06:00 – How to set boundaries without abandoning yourself 08:16 – Setting boundaries after “no boundaries” + pushback 09:08 – You don’t set boundaries alone (bring your partner in) 13:27 – Scripts: “This is what I’m needing right now” 15:23 – Consequences when people keep crossing it 20:03 – Culture + boundaries: when it feels like an attack 22:22 – Story time: sister-in-law snoops phone at Shabbat dinner 23:30 – What to say + do you apologize? 28:11 – Would You Rather (lightning round) 34:58 – Wrap + thank you If this episode resonates, subscribe for honest conversations about boundaries, relationships, family dynamics, and mental health. #boundaries #familyboundaries #inlaws #mentalhealth #peoplepleasing #relationships #therapy #emotionalboundaries #selfrespect #healing #podcast Welcome to Boundaries & Banter 🎙️ Join Taryn and Michela for raw, funny, and heartfelt conversations about mental health, relationships, and everything in between. 👇 Stay connected with us: 📸 Instagram – @boundariesandbanter 🎵 TikTok – @boundariesandbanter ▶️ YouTube Shorts & full episodes –    / @boundariesandbanter   💌 Share your story: boundariesandbanter@gmail.com #BoundariesAndBanter #MentalHealthPodcast #Relationships #FunnyPodcast #WomensPodcast