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How to be a Good Sexual Man: Interview with Sam Jolman

Men, have you ever wished someone had sat you down and given you the sex talk you really needed—not the awkward, surface-level version, but a conversation that spoke to your heart, your masculinity, and how all of that relates to your sexuality and how God designed you? That’s exactly what therapist and author Sam Jolman offers in his book The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality. I was deeply honored to have him on the Delight Your Marriage podcast for a conversation I believe every man and every wife needs to hear. In this episode we'll cover: – What Often Stop Men from Fully Bringing their Heart to Sex – How Masculinity is More Than Just Behavior Management – How Connecting with Awe, Wonder, and Beauty brings You Closer to God (and Your Wife!) To learn more about Sam Jolman, check out his website at: https://www.samjolman.com/ To check out his book, The Sex Talk You Never Got, go to Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or anywhere books are sold. If you like this content and want to hear more, please subscribe to our channel: ‪@delightyourmarriage‬ If you want to learn more about Delight Your Marriage and the Coaching Programs we have for men and women to empower connection, check out delightym.com We’ll see you next Friday! Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:20 - Belah's Introduction to the Episode 01:54 - How Sam’s book impacted Belah deeply 03:05 - Sam shares about his Family, Career, and Passion for Men's Healing 04:20 - Why Sam wrote this book: Men’s Hidden Emotional Needs 06:50 - Men Desire Connection: Beyond the Cultural Stereotype 08:10 - Inviting Men to a Better Vision of Masculinity 09:20 - Moving beyond “Am I Behaving?” view of Sexuality 10:50 - Uncovering Wounds: Shame and Buried Stories of harm 12:20 - Men and Resistance to seeing themselves as victims 13:50 - The Silence of Male sexual abuse Survivors 15:20 - Sensuality vs. Sexuality: What Men Are Really Missing 16:40 - Connecting Sexual Desire to the Heart 17:50 - Song of Songs: the Poetic Lover as a model 18:50 - Cultivating Sensual Living Beyond Sex 20:05 - Enjoying Beauty in everyday life: meals, sunsets, art 22:20 - Balancing Grit and Sensuality as a Man 24:20 - Experiencing Awe in Sexuality 25:50 - Awe: Pleasure and Vulnerability together 27:20 - The Beauty of Reverence in sexual intimacy 29:20 - Jesus as the Ultimate Model of Masculine Tenderness 31:20 - Strength in Restraint: Knowing when to Act or Hold Back 34:20 - Glory in the body: God’s masterpiece in your spouse 36:20 - The Biblical view of covering Glory, not Shame 38:20 - Recognizing Moral Beauty in your Spouse 40:20 - Daily life as Beauty: seeing your Spouse’s Character 42:20 - How Men can see their Wives through Eyes of Awe 44:20 - Awe fosters Emotional Connection and Humility 46:20 - Awe and Worship: being drawn to God and your spouse 47:50 - Healthy fear and reverence in Intimacy 50:20 - Playfulness in Marriage and Sex 52:20 - Isaac and Rebekah: Playfulness in the Bible 54:20 - Sex as Play: Freedom, Consent, and Joy 56:20 - Making Marriage playful beyond the Bedroom 58:00 - Identifying what Burdens playful Connection 59:20 - Transitioning from Task mode to Play mode 1:00:50 - Kind responses to Vulnerability in Intimacy 1:02:20 - Sam’s Prayer for Healing and renewed Playfulness 1:04:35 - Where to find Sam’s book and resources 1:06:40 - Final encouragement: Men’s Healing is Possible