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Igniting Compassion Trailer - Marshall Rosenberg Dedication

Igniting Compassion is a series of fun, engaging, inspiring and empowering conversations between Katrina Vaillancourt, various Nonviolent Communication (NVC) Certified Trainers, and other guests who are seeking to share compassionate solutions to the common challenges of today’s modern world. In these livestream interviews, you will quickly discover how the principles of NVC can be applied to all forms of relationship in order to shift from painful dynamics of disconnection, pain and conflict to a new way of relating that is deeply from the heart, full of integrity, and soulfully committed to co-creating win/win outcomes. The insights and practices you learn in these sessions will support you to create breakthrough results in your life, increasing well-being, joy, connection and harmony in any relationship to which you apply the teachings and principles shared in our Igniting Compassion series. This show is sponsored by Spirituality Gone Wild www.SpiritualityGoneWild.com and Love Smart Cards www.LoveSmartCards.com. TRANSCRIPT: I started from the question of how come some people enjoy other people's suffering and then how come other people from the same society are just the opposite they get their joy not in believing that there's bad people that need to be punished, but they get their joy in contributing to people's well being. The first thing I'll suggest is that you can't teach anybody anything, and to have that as an objective is itself creates problems, so lets change the objective, let's never try to teach anybody anything or to change anybody, if that's your objective you'll create resistance. Saying what we don't want doesn't make clear what we do want. But worse than that if we frame our objectives in getting rid of something it leads to violence very often. It makes violence seem attractive when we try to get rid of something. Behind every feeling there is a need. When she hears your needs without hearing any criticism or demands, and you hear her needs without any criticism or demands, the solution will find you, the conflict will resolve itself. It does need to be resolved, but what most of us do, we skip this, and go right to here. Needs contain no reference to specific ways of getting the needs met. Those are preferences or strategies or requests. So we make a big difference between needs, and between preferences, requests, strategies. All needs are universal. Every human being in the world has the same needs. I'm not doing it for money, I'm not doing it to get a positive report card, I'm doing it cause something that has increased joy in my life, it's joyful to share it with others. It's a fun game, it's the most fun game I've ever found, contributing to peoples well being. I'm really confident it's the most fulfilling game we human beings will ever find. TAGS: Nonviolent Communication - An Introduction - Marshall Rosenberg - Words Are Windows Or They're Walls 2012.10.04 - Marshall Rosenberg - Nonviolent Communication - Brief Introduction (Mirrored from XPUni)