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Why Valentine's Day Didn’t Feel As You Hoped

Why didn’t Valentine’s Day feel the way you hoped… even though your partner is actually a good person? In this episode of the Be That Healing Girl Podcast, I’m breaking down the real reason you felt disappointed after Valentine’s Day, a weekend together, a date, or quality time — and why it triggered doubt, overthinking, and questioning the relationship. This conversation is for high-achieving, self-aware women who know their partner is loving and consistent… but still spiral afterward wondering: “Are we a good fit?” “Am I asking for too much?” “Should I feel more excited than this?” If you’ve ever replayed moments, searched for evidence of a lack of effort, or felt emotionally distant after something that was supposed to feel romantic... this episode will hit. Because here’s the truth: Disappointment doesn’t always mean the relationship is wrong. Sometimes it reveals the pattern underneath anxious attachment, overthinking, and unmet expectations. In this episode, we unpack: Why Valentine’s Day, vacations, and “quality time” can trigger relationship anxiety The expectation vs. reality trap that fuels overthinking How internal comparison (social media, other couples) creates dissatisfaction Why your brain searches for proof they “didn’t show up enough” The difference between asking for too much vs. settling for too little How anxious attachment and avoidant tendencies can both show up after closeness Why you may be questioning the relationship instead of your internal narrative The hidden pattern: confusing intensity for spark and chaos for love I also share a personal behind-the-scenes moment from my own relationship with Craig — and how learning to release control and let myself be surprised changed our connection. If you’re exhausted from spending mental energy spiraling about whether your partner is “the one,” this episode will help you zoom out, regulate, and reconnect. You’re not broken. You’re not dramatic. You’re likely running a pattern that can be unlearned. And that’s exactly what we work on here. 💌 Ready for deeper support? Inside Healing Girl Gang, we practice the tools and reps that move you from anxious attachment → secure connection. 👉 Join here: healinggirlgang.com 🦋 Ready for the deeper work? 💖 JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG! 💖 HealingGirlGang.com 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 http://tinyurl.com/theconfidencecode2024 ✅ SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE https://bit.ly/bethathealinggirlsubsc... JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY 💗Follow on Instagram: https://bit.ly/bethathealinggirlinsta 💖Follow on TikTok: https://bit.ly/bethathealinggirltiktok WORK WITH CLARE 😜 Self-Sabotage Slay-Over http://tinyurl.com/slayover2024 ⭐️ VIP 1:1 Session https://bit.ly/bethathealinggirlVIP #BeThatHealingGirl #AnxiousAttachment #intuition #anxiety #healingjourney #HealingGirlGang #RelationshipAnxiety #healforgood #healingjourney