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Rewiring Your Brain to Break Self-Sabotage & Emotional Reactivity featuring Ashleigh Di Lello

Do you ever feel like there’s a relentless critic living inside your head? The one that questions your worth, second-guesses your decisions, and tells you that you’re not enough — as a husband, father, or leader? In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, I sit down with Ashleigh Di Lello, founder of Bio Emotional Healing, to unpack the neuroscience behind the inner critic, self-sabotage, chronic stress, and identity. Ashleigh shares her extraordinary story — from being told at 13 she wouldn’t survive a rare viral illness, to rebuilding her body and career as an elite dancer, to losing everything again after a failed surgery left her in chronic pain. What she discovered about the brain, the nervous system, and self-compassion doesn’t just apply to injury — it applies to every man stuck in anxiety, pressure, and silent self-judgment. This isn’t about positive thinking. It’s about understanding how your nervous system works, how identity is formed, and how to rewire the patterns that keep you reactive, disconnected, and exhausted. If you’re tired of white-knuckling life and ready for real tools grounded in neuroscience, this episode is for you. Timeline Summary: [0:00] The inner critic most men silently battle [2:05] Ashleigh’s diagnosis at 13 and being told she wouldn’t survive [18:45] Using mental rehearsal to rebuild neural pathways [26:43] Losing her career after a failed surgery [30:45] Studying neuroscience to “flip the pain switch” [35:12] What harsh self-criticism does to the brain [44:16] The five-minute “container” exercise [59:06] Rewriting identity through intentional self-talk Five Key Takeaways: 1. Harsh self-criticism activates fight-or-flight and blocks growth. 2. Self-compassion is neurological safety — not weakness. 3. Your brain validates whatever identity you reinforce. 4. You can’t lie to your brain, but you can guide it. 5. What you suppress gains power — structured processing creates freedom. Links & Resources: • Ashleigh Di Lello Website: https://www.ashleighdilello.com • Follow Ashleigh on Instagram:   / ashleighdilello   • Collagen (1st Phorm – what I personally use): https://1stphorm.com/products/collage... • Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: https://thedadedge.com/preview • Dad Edge Business Boardroom (Mastermind): https://thedadedge.com/mastermind • Episode Shownotes: http://thedadedge.com/1443 Closing Remark If this episode hit home — if you recognized that voice in your head — I challenge you to try the five-minute container exercise this week. Lead yourself with steadiness. Lead your family with clarity. If you found value in today’s conversation, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Every share helps us impact more fathers, families, and future generations. From my heart to yours — go out and live legendary.