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How to Stop the Constant Bickering in Your Marriage | Esther Perel

Esther Perel is one of the world’s most influential marriage therapists, known for helping couples understand why love fades, resentment builds, and small conflicts turn into constant warfare. In this episode of Ayeka, Rabbi Yoseph Vigler reacts to Perel’s powerful insight into criticism, bickering, and emotional escalation — and then takes it one step deeper. Why does constant criticism feel unavoidable in marriage? Why do arguments repeat themselves even when both people “mean well”? And how does Torah explain what actually stops the cycle? This conversation explores: • Why criticism is often a cry for closeness • How resentment builds beneath everyday fights • The difference between reacting and reflecting • Why being “right” often costs the relationship • How trust in God changes how we hold anger