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Do You Love Yourself More Than How They Treat You

Do you love yourself more than you love how they're treating you? This is the question I had to ask myself about people I never thought I'd need boundaries with. My niece who I held as a baby. My parents who I love more than anyone. People I thought had my back no matter what. One of the biggest shocks on my healing journey wasn't just learning to set boundaries—it was WHO I had to set them with. This is the reality nobody talks about when you start loving yourself and doing the healing work: You'll have to set boundaries with people you never expected. In this video, I share three stories about setting boundaries with family members I love deeply. These experiences taught me that loving someone doesn't mean accepting how they treat you. Self-love means choosing yourself even when it's hard. WHAT I SHARE IN THIS VIDEO: 1. Why setting boundaries was one of the biggest shocks on my journey 2. My niece who I held as a baby but felt constantly rejected by 3. Buying Nicki Minaj concert tickets to spend time with her and the energy I felt 4. The loyalty I feel to my brother who passed away in 2007 5. Why it takes two to tango applies to family relationships 6. My dad calling during meditation to ask for a favor I refused 7. Going 6 months without talking to my parents and what my mom said after 8. The scotch story when my dad asked if I bought MY celebration drink for HIM 9. The Monstera plant incident that revealed everything 10. Spirits download about how my dad moves from emotions 11. Why I keep my parents at arms length now with love and respect 12. The difference between cutting someone off vs keeping them at arms length 13. Why people pleasers will have TONS of boundaries to set 14. How to decide complete cutoff or arms length 15. Your backpack is for YOUR stuff now not everyone else's problems THE SCOTCH AND MONSTERA STORY: I got a promotion at work. Bought myself nice scotch to celebrate. Told my dad that's what it was for MY celebration. Next day he asks Did you buy that scotch for me to have? I gave it to him anyway. Then he rushed so fast to grab it that he knocked down my monstera plant propagations mason jars everywhere water all over the floor. None of it got on him. I cleaned it all up. Spirit gave me a download in that moment My dad moves from emotions. He creates messes but walks away clean while others clean up after him. That's when I knew I needed boundaries.