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Overcommitted and Underdelivering? Here’s How to Say No.

Saying no isn’t about being difficult—it’s about protecting your priorities, your sanity, and, ironically, your relationships. In this episode of A Job Done Well, Jimmy and James dissect the art of the polite but firm refusal, exposing why so many of us default to “yes” and the damage it quietly inflicts. From the social wiring that makes us people-pleasers to the hierarchical pressures of the workplace, they unpack the psychological traps that turn us into overcommitted, underdelivering messes. The hosts share their own cringe-worthy tales of saying yes when they should’ve said no—James’s ill-fated stint as a 70th-birthday party host, Jimmy’s recency bias leading to future regret, and the time a bully of a boss met his match with a single, unapologetic “no.” They reveal how saying no isn’t just liberating; it’s a career-saver. Overcommitting leads to half-baked work, missed deadlines, and a reputation as the office “yes man”—a fate worse than being the person who occasionally pushes back. But how do you actually say no without burning bridges? Jimmy and James offer tactical advice: negotiate trade-offs, redirect requests to the right person, or simply be honest about your capacity. They also challenge listeners with three hard questions: What are you saying yes to that you resent? Who do you need to have a more honest conversation with? And if you said no to just one thing this month, what would it be? The episode’s core message? Every “yes” is a “no” to something else. Whether it’s your daughter’s nursery pickup, your own mental health, or the work that actually matters, learning to say no is about owning your priorities—not your boss’s, not your colleagues’, and certainly not your future self’s.