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My Wife Caught Me Talking To Another Girl | Paul Friedman

Does your wife caught you talking to another girl? What are you going to do? Watch Paul help get educated and help you with this problem. I'm going to give you real feedback, real, simple, easy to understand what's going on but it's probably not going to be what you were looking for. I've met with lots of men over the years and usually, the response you're looking for is along the lines of, "Yeah, haven't we all been there. Here's what'll work." I'm not going there because we haven't all been there. If you're there look at the words you use, "my wife caught me" that implies some guilt, some admission on your part that you really should not have been doing it. I'm not going to lecture you that's not the purpose of The Marriage Foundation. The Marriage Foundation is here to teach people how to derive the benefits of marriage and most people don't understand that there's unbelievable benefits to marriage. And usually, what happens is their marriage is going to hell in a hand basket and then they come to us to heal their marriage and there's an open door so you're not there yet. You're not in a place yet where your whole marriage is collapsing but you're starting to walk down that path. And I'm going to tell you what's really simple is for you to understand that you don't know how to be married. What are the benefits of being married? Why do people get married? You get married -- number one because you want to be happier. Number two which is tied to number one, you get married because you want to experience unconditional love which is so powerful. It's unimaginably powerful and that's what creates the happiness. so you got to have that unconditional love which translates into a lot of things but connection, trust, mutual respect, being so nice to each other all the time, all those things that you don't have right now. If you're already talking to other girls it means that you're starting to take each other for granted. You don't really -- there's a part of you that really doesn't care because you're not getting from your marriage what you should be and it's not your wife's fault. It's not your fault either in a way that you're not getting those benefits but you didn't learn. No one learns about marriage. No one learns about themselves, gender-based. No one learns learns about the other gender and so what happens is we get married with this vague expectation of happiness based on TV stuff, families, children, companionship, doing things together -- mundane stuff. It's not where marriage is at so here's my suggestion to you. First of all, you need to apologize. You just can't do that and I'm sure you probably already have but she's probably still angry. The reason why she's still angry is because like you, she doesn't see a way out. She doesn't see it getting any better. And so you guys have gotten into this ditch that you can't get out of. Here's the simplest thing to do. I've written a couple of books. They're not difficult to digest. You can't read it all at once but you can read them together like at night before you go to bed. Just pick it up, Breaking the Cycle which I think is the better of the two. Lessons for a Happy Marriage just as good, not as extensive and start reading to each other. Just a couple of paragraphs, maybe a chapter, maybe a half a chapter whatever you want. But every night, read to each other you guys will learn so much about marriage that these kind of things won't happen again and you won't be talking to other girls but you won't be talking other girls not because you're going to get into trouble if you get caught but because you'll be putting all of your attention on making your marriage into what it's supposed to be. Haven't you ever heard the term, marital bliss? It's real and you can have that so get educated. Okay. Now if your marriage is and chances are this is not the case. But if your marriage is really starting to slide towards divorce then you do need to get the course for men and that will help resuscitate you and your marriage. So I hope this was useful for you, leave a comment, leave a like, share it and thank you for spending this time with me. I'm trying to help you out and we also have counselors that you could write to -- it's free but they're just going to direct you the way I directed you because this is a pretty straightforward simple and usual problem. Everything's going to be okay but not because it's going to be okay because you have to do something about it. You gotta get educated. Let me help you with that. #marriagetips #marriagecommitment #marriageproblems #frustrated #unhappywife #marriageissues