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Stop Giving Advice. It’s Why People Don’t Open Up to You.

You mean well. You see someone struggling, and you offer a solution. That’s what good people do, right? Wrong. Giving advice—especially when it wasn’t asked for—is one of the fastest ways to quietly erode trust in a relationship. Not because your advice is bad. But because advice, by its very nature, creates distance. This video explains the psychology behind why unsolicited advice triggers defensiveness, shuts down vulnerability, and makes people feel unsafe—even when you’re trying to help. You’ll learn: 🧠 Why the brain interprets advice as judgment (not help) 🚫 The difference between fixing and connecting 👂 What to say instead of giving advice (simple scripts) 🔁 How to break the “problem solver” pattern if you’re a natural fixer This isn’t about being passive. It’s about learning to hold space—so people actually want to open up to you. 📌 Have you ever given someone advice and felt them pull away? Or been on the receiving end of “help” that felt heavy? Share your story below. Let’s normalize this conversation. #GivingAdvice #UnsolicitedAdvice #PsychologyOfCommunication #ActiveListening #EmotionalIntelligence #RelationshipPsychology #HowToConnect #UnderTheCover #SelfAwareness #BetterConversations #FixerMindset #CommunicationSkills #HoldSpace #PsychologyFacts #PersonalGrowth