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Vibrator addiction fact and fiction

Join Sara's Secret's Sexy Genius, Beth Darling, to learn about the facts and fiction around the myth of vibrator addiction. Vibrator Addiction: Fact or Fiction === [00:00:00] Have you heard the one that says, if a woman uses a vibrator that she might become addicted to it or, and, or she might even prefer a vibrator to a man or a woman, I guess, right? One way or the other. I want to set the record straight. I'm Beth darling, your sexy genius here with you for Sara's secret community chat. [00:00:23] And this, this little, um, urban myth has been going around since I was young and I'm not young anymore. It's been around a long time. So if you've heard this, if you even think about or believe it, or if your PR your partner, um, believes it don't feel bad, it really is. It's a very common commonly thrown around sort of, um, like old, wive's tale. [00:00:46] Okay, because here's the deal. It's not really true. It's not it's except that. Okay. Let me, let me clarify. When I say it's not really, you know, the lawyer in me gets confused. Um, it is possible... for somebody, a man or a woman to basically develop habits, a habit as a way of means to orgasm. And once habits are developed, they can then be hard to overcome. [00:01:12] So for example, if you only orgasm laying on your back, during missionary position or maybe during oral sex from your partner, well, that would be a habit, right? And then sometimes your partner tries to get you off using your fingers, their fingers, or you try to use your finger and suddenly you can't do that, right? [00:01:28] Those are habits. Okay. So that is true. We can develop sort of neural pathways basically from her arousal to our brain that says orgasm, you know, happens when ABC happens and that could include a vibrator or not, but, I don't want you to orgasm with the vibrator or with your fingers or a certain fantasy or a certain partner or a certain position or any place in the house, you know, things like that. [00:01:55] I want you to create different ways for you to orgasm, which means stand up, sit down. Left-hand right-hand in the shower, in the bath, in the bedroom, in the dark, by yourself, with the tongue, with the finger, with a vibrator over and over all different ways to orgasm. That, that is the key to being able to orgasm in multiple different fashions. [00:02:18] All right. So just like, I don't want you to always use your same few fingers in the same thing. Same repetition, the same fantasy. I don't want you to use the same vibrator over and over again. So yes, you can develop habits that are not always beneficial. [00:02:34] But, if somebody is worried that you're going to like your vibrator more than you're going to like your partner, I draw the line there. There's nothing in that. If you like your vibrator better than your partner, I promise you, you are with the wrong partner period, because I'm telling you there's not a vibrator around that can kiss you, that can hold you, that can talk to you, that can change just based on knowing you and creating something totally different. They just can't. Okay. [00:03:01] So you should never like your vibrator more than your partner. If you do, that's the problem with the partner. I mean, it could be a great vibe, too, but it says more about the partner and, two, always, always, always find different ways to orgasm. Have a selection of different vibrators. Use them differently. Alternate with fingers, tongues, hands, anything else, different fantasies and, particularly, particularly notice if you have an air suction vibrator, one of those clitoral suction vibrators only, only, only use those, maybe every eight orgasms. Okay. Don't use those all the time, because those are so specific and so intense that they can encourage us to develop a habit quicker than other ones. [00:03:42] All right. So there you have it. Vibrators are not intrinsically bad. No one should be getting addicted to any one form of orgasm. With the vibe with a finger, et cetera. All right. And alternate those clitoral suction lines on a very, very regular basis. [00:04:00] I'm Beth Darling, your sexy genius. Thank you so much for being here. [00:04:03] Please send in your questions. Every month we pick a few questions. I write some out, I do the video, check the Ask Beth Darling column, and also pay attention to our class this month because every month Sara's Secret is awesome and hosts, um, me to come and teach a class. So it is tons of fun. It's online these days. [00:04:22] So join us from wherever you are, sign up is free. Big hugs and love. Thanks so much. And I can't wait to talk to you soon.