Does your toddler tween or teen resist validation? Here’s what to do. | Julie Fragnito, MS Ed. скачать в хорошем качестве

Does your toddler tween or teen resist validation? Here’s what to do. | Julie Fragnito, MS Ed.

Sometimes parents worry when their child resists “feelings talk.” You might try to validate—“I know you’re upset”—only to have your child shut down, argue, or push back. Here’s the truth: validation is helpful, but it isn’t always necessary. Many kids don’t need long conversations about emotions in the moment. Over-emphasizing feelings can actually add pressure or make them dig in more. What matters most is showing kids you understand through your tone, your presence, and your actions. A calm voice, a simple acknowledgment, or just being nearby often speaks louder than words. ✨ The takeaway: don’t get stuck thinking every challenge requires a deep “feelings talk.” Kids need balance—less talking about feelings, more modeling, guiding, and giving them tools to move forward. . . . #parenting #parentcoach #motherhood #fatherhood #parenthood #positiveparenting #structureandnurture #intentionalparenting