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Why You Keep Overlooking the Men Who Could Actually Make You Happy

Watch next: How to Date in 2025 | What Every Woman Should Know    • Видео   You might also like: 1. Unconventional Advice I Wish I Knew in My 20s | Marriage, Kids & Career    • Видео   2. Why You Want What You Want (And Why It Rarely Makes You Happy)    • Why You Want What You Want (And Why It Rar...   3. Everyone is getting divorced... billionaires' wives, social media & keeping romance alive    • Everyone is getting divorced... billionair...   4. Rules Of Attraction: What Men Look For When Dating    • The No.1 Thing Men Look For, According to ...   5. Why Smart Women Settle for the Nice Guy    • Why Smart Women Settle for the Nice Guy   Ever wonder why you never seem to meet men you’re actually attracted to? The truth may surprise you: it’s not about them, but about the hidden patterns in your own brain shaping your attraction. In this video, I break down how modern dating often tricks us into overlooking men with real potential and how your “type” might be completely off. I share practical strategies to expand your options, assess character, and discover what truly drives your attraction—so you can finally meet men who excite you. Stop wasting time on the wrong signals and start noticing the qualities that matter most. ⏳TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - The Truth About "Having a Type" in Modern Dating 01:12 - Why Attraction Works Differently Than You Think 03:19 - The Hidden Cost of Ignoring Psychological Compatibility 04:23 - Why We Overlook Great Matches (The Data Problem) 05:41 - Debunking Love at First Sight 06:44 - Practical Strategies to Break Your Dating Patterns 07:33 - Strategy #1: The Wide Net Approach 08:18 - Strategy #2: The Pre-Date Screening Call 09:13 - When Being Selective Backfires 09:45 - Strategy #3: The Slow Burn Method 11:25 - Strategy #4: Identifying Your Attraction Patterns 12:54 - Making Dating Work & Being Intentional 📚 BOOKS & RESOURCES Beat Your Genes Podcast (one of my personal favourites on psychology and human nature) The Female Brain — Louann Brizendine Social Anxiety – Mark Leary The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less — Barry Schwartz The Pleasure Trap: Mastering the Hidden Force That Undermines Health and Happiness – Douglas J. Lisle and Alan Goldhamer The Case Against the Sexual Revolution – Louise Perry The Village Effect: Why Face-to-Face Contact Matters — Susan Pinker Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less — Greg McKeown Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals — Oliver Burkeman Mismatch: How Our Stone Age Brain Deceives Us — Richard Wrangham The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating – David Buss