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#1 Reason You Keep Attracting the Wrong Person (It’s Not Bad Luck)

Have you ever stayed in a relationship just to avoid being alone? Did staying make you feel better or worse over time? Today, Jay sits down with writer and relationship coach Quinlan Walther to explore what it truly means to build healthy, lasting relationships. Quinlan introduces her “Four C’s of Self-Trust”: curiosity, capacity, compassion, and commitment, a framework for strengthening one’s relationship with the self before seeking partnership. They explore the difference between chemistry and compatibility, reminding listeners that while excitement can spark a connection, it’s shared values and emotional maturity that sustain it. Quinlan emphasizes that relationships are not meant to fill our emptiness but to reflect our growth. In his interview, you'll learn: How to Know If You’re Ready for Love How to Build Self-Trust Before Dating How to Create Emotional Safety in Relationships How to Tell Chemistry from Compatibility How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt How to Heal After a Breakup How to Stop Repeating Unhealthy Patterns How to Grow Together Without Losing Yourself What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:22 Wanting vs. Being Ready for Love 03:01 The Four C’s of Self-Trust 05:34 Relationships Should Help You Grow 09:27 Building Stability and Emotional Safety 12:21 When Requests Become Unreasonable 14:09 Love Within Someone’s Capacity 18:35 Are You Exhausted From Dating? 22:42 Does the Spark Really Matter? 24:05 When Attraction Misleads You 25:35 Compatibility vs. Chemistry 28:29 How Black-and-White Thinking Hurts Love 31:47 Is Love Alone Ever Enough? 34:05 What True Commitment Looks Like 37:17 Learning to Show Up for Yourself 40:12 Healing Family Wounds and Finding Peace 42:56 Breaking the Criticism–Withdrawal Cycle 50:08 Your Partner Reflects How You Love Yourself 51:48 Dating is Discernment, Marriage is Devotion 54:31 Real Change Takes Time 58:47 Why Every Relationship Needs Boundaries 01:00:26 How to Set Healthy Boundaries 01:02:01 Stop Compromising Your Own Boundaries 01:03:19 Are Soulmates Real? 01:05:38 What Should Love Feel Like? 01:08:59 Do You Want a Partner or a Spouse? 01:13:49 How to Move On After a Breakup 01:17:26 You Are Not Hard to Love 01:20:09 The Lessons Hidden in a Heartbreak 01:22:18 Quinlan on Final Five Episode Resources: https://www.quinlanwalther.com/   / quinlanwalther     / quinlanwalther      / @quinlanwalther-d3u     / jayshetty     / jayshetty   https://x.com/jayshetty   / shettyjay      / @jayshettypodcast   http://jayshetty.me