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Losing Physical Attraction To Partner

What you should do if your partner is losing physical attraction to you? Watch Paul gives you tips and advice to regain the spark that you think is missing. This particular topic, some may think that it is more one gender than the other but in fact, it's both, and there is a really simple reason that this takes place which means that there's a simple fix. Now, not always. Just the other day we got an email and we get emails because The Marriage Foundation offers free counseling advice and so people are able to write in and one woman wrote in and this is true, this is actually something that actually happened the other day. She said, "My husband and I have never had sex ever and I love him unconditionally, and I feel that he loves me unconditionally and we've been married 25 years." And she said, "I want to know whether this can be changed," and the counselor wrote back and said to her, "Look, you love each other unconditionally. What more could you want? You're fine. Don't fall into the trap of society that says sex is very important." She wrote back and said, "But it is very important to me," and so our counselor wrote back and said, "This is not what we do. We don't get involved in these sort of simple things," you already have and now I'm adding you already have unconditional love and in most cases 99.7% of the time, unconditional love, when it's continuously expressed in the marriage, leads to physical intimacy, not just soul intimacy. There were pieces missing to what she was writing in about obviously, and they were pieces that she didn't want to reveal and we don't ask questions. But the reality is that we are human beings which means we're a blend of the soul which is what we are essentially, and our material side, our body in our mind. And so, it's very natural for us to engage sexually, to be attracted to each other when that unconditional love is manifesting. So, think of it this way, making sure that unconditional love exists in your marriage which is something you can do it's something you have control over it will lead to sexual intimacy. What inhibits that is usually one of the partners being really nice to the other and so they build up defenses or an over-sensitivity to the other's behavior towards them. This is solvable so think of the lack of sexual attraction as a symptom and not an immediate but a couple of steps away. So the question is, what do I do about it? Let's go back to why you got married in first place which was to be happy and to experience love, experience unconditional love. That should have been your mindset going into the marriage and everything that you do in your marriage should be geared towards contributing to those two foundational elements in the marriage. Unconditional love and happiness, and there is a simple principle free will that should be utilized to make that happen. Free will doesn't always mean doing what you want to do oftentimes, it means not doing what your mind is telling you to do because your mind may be wrong. Your emotions are usually wrong, usually and I know we live in a society now that's talking about go with your emotions but that's not true. You shouldn't be going with your emotions because your emotions are a part of the mechanism within your mind that is not you the soul. You the soul should be in charge of the mind so if emotion is good you're feeling happy. Yeah, go with it but if it's feeling resentment, you shouldn't go with it. I'm opening up kind of a new book for you on marriage one that puts you in charge of your destiny. You are in charge of yourself and your marriage which is how it's supposed to be. You wouldn't have free will if you weren't supposed to use it but you are supposed to use it and you're supposed to use it to be happy not at the expense of another but the happiness that's within you should be expressed, the love that's within you should be expressed so that you realize the happiness. Watch the video for more. ------- Join our mailing list and get our Top 10 Do's and Don'ts for Marriage: http://gotmf.org/top10 Listen to our podcast: http://gotmf.org/podcast Ask a TMF counselor about your situation, free: http://gotmf.org/aac 12 Week Marriage System: Men & Women's courses: http://gotmf.org/system Watch Paul talk about the system:    • 12 Week Marriage Saving System & Online Ma...   Paul's Books: Breaking The Cycle http://gotmf.org/btc Lessons for a Happy Marriage http://gotmf.org/lfhm Follow Us: Twitter:   / themarriagefdn   Pinterest:   / themarriagefoundation   Instagram:   / themarriagefoundation   Facebook:   / themarriagefoundation   All other information about TMF: https://themarriagefoundation.org To Support TMF with Your Donation: https://themarriagefoundation.org/abo... ------- #TheMarriageFoundation #PaulFriedman #marriageproblems #marriagecounseling #maritalproblems #marriageissues #frustratedwoman #unhappywife