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Have you ever felt angry at God for the family you were born into — for fathers or father figures who were supposed to reflect His love but instead hurt, abandoned, or wounded you? Father wounds can leave us questioning everything: Why was I born into this family? Why did God allow me to be hurt by the very people meant to reflect His love? It’s normal — even healthy — to feel anger, confusion, and sadness toward God. Feeling these emotions doesn’t make you less faithful; it makes you human. What matters is bringing them honestly before Him. Today, we’ll explore: Why these wounds exist in the first place Why God allows these seasons of pain How nothing is wasted, even our suffering The character God may be developing in us How we can actively break generational patterns Signs You’re Struggling with God over Your Father Wounds You may notice: Feeling bitter or resentful toward God because of earthly fathers Questioning His goodness or fairness Feeling abandoned in your pain Difficulty trusting His provision or protection Wanting to distance yourself from both your father figure and from God These feelings are valid. God doesn’t condemn you for them — He welcomes your honest expression. Understanding Why God Allows Seasons of Pain Romans 8:28 reminds us: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” God’s allowance of difficult circumstances doesn’t mean He causes the pain or desires it for you. Rather: Character development: Like Cinderella continuing to show grace to her stepfamily, God uses seasons of difficulty to cultivate patience, resilience, humility, and wisdom. Preparation for purpose: Pain can prepare you to break cycles of generational dysfunction, influence others positively, and respond differently than your father figure did. Free will of others: God allows humans to make choices, even harmful ones, but He can redeem the consequences for growth and healing. Nothing is wasted — every trial can teach, shape, or redirect your life according to God’s plan. Biblical Perspective Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him…” Even painful relationships can produce good: empathy, discernment, and spiritual maturity. James 1:2–4 – Trials produce perseverance, refining our faith and character. God uses challenging relationships to grow endurance, patience, and the ability to love well. Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” He is present in your suffering, even when your earthly father is not. Perspective for Healing It’s okay to be honest with God: Express anger, grief, and confusion. He can handle your questions. Separate human failure from divine intent: Your father’s choices do not reflect God’s desire for you. Look for lessons, not justification: What is God teaching you in this season? What strengths, wisdom, or empathy are you developing? Break the cycle intentionally: You may be responsible for stopping generational patterns — choosing differently, setting healthy boundaries, and showing love in ways you didn’t receive. Reflection & Journaling Prompts What emotions am I holding toward God about my father or father figures? How can I bring these feelings honestly before Him without fear of judgment? What lessons might God be teaching me in this difficult season? Where can I actively break generational patterns of hurt in my life and relationships? How can I show love, grace, or wisdom where it was lacking before? Affirmation I am allowed to feel and express my pain honestly before God.My wounds do not define me — they refine me.God is present, working even through what is hard, to develop my character and break cycles of hurt. Key Verse Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” Beloved, nothing is wasted. Your anger, your hurt, and your confusion can all be redeemed in God’s hands. Even when you cannot distance yourself from a harmful father figure, you can grow in wisdom, set boundaries, and actively choose a different path. Your wounds do not define you — God’s love and purpose do. Bring your questions, your anger, and your heart to Him. He is faithful to meet you there, to redeem your pain, and to equip you to break cycles of generational hurt. Until next time, stay rooted in truth, wrapped in grace, and always remember — you are beloved. 💛 Get full access to Beloved with Cherise Rochelle at cheriserochelle.substack.com/subscribe (https://cheriserochelle.substack.com/...)