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Why you lose yourself in relationships

For a long time, I believed co-dependency meant I was too much. Too emotional. Too giving. Too attached. I thought I needed stronger boundaries… more confidence… more self-worth. But what no one ever explained is this: Co-dependency isn’t about weakness. It’s about adaptation. Many co-dependent patterns are formed in childhood, where love or safety felt, inconsistent. Where someone learned early on that staying connected meant staying attuned. You learned to read the room. Manage emotions that weren’t yours. Stay small, helpful, agreeable — because connection felt like survival. Your nervous system became wired to believe: “If I take care of everyone else, I’ll be safe.” And that pattern doesn’t disappear just because you grow up. It follows you into relationships. Friendships. Work. Motherhood. You end up exhausted. Resentful. Disconnected from yourself, yet terrified of letting people down. This isn’t a character flaw. It’s a nervous system that learned love required self-abandonment. And healing doesn’t start by forcing boundaries. It starts by teaching your body that: You are safe even when you choose yourself. 🌿 BRIDGE INTO RE-LIVE That understanding is at the heart of RE-LIVE. RE-LIVE isn’t about fixing you. It’s not about blaming your past. It’s about understanding why your nervous system does what it does and how to gently come back into safety, regulation, and self-connection because when safety returns, boundaries become natural and connection no longer requires self-betrayal. If co-dependency has left you feeling drained, invisible, or unsure of who you are anymore RE-LIVE will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. You’ll learn how your nervous system adapted, and why letting go feels so hard, and how to come home to yourself, without losing connection. The link to get your copy of RE-LIVE is below. https://gabrielletargett.com/re-live-... This isn’t about becoming independent at all costs. It’s about learning that you are safe to exist, as you are. If you’d like next: