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Gay Gaslighting: The Impact on LGBTQ+ Finances | Queer Money

Are gay people gaslighting ourselves about money? Let’s dish, shall we? In this episode, we dive into the sneaky, self-sabotaging habit of self-gaslighting—yes, it’s a thing—and how it’s keeping too many in the LGBTQ community stuck in a cycle of overspending, under-planning, and telling themselves it’s totally fine when it’s anything but. We’re calling out the little lies we tell ourselves: “I deserve this splurge,” “I’ll save later,” “Debt is just a part of life.” Sound familiar? From lifestyle inflation to credit card quicksand, we break down the psychological traps and societal pressures that trick queer folks into trading long-term stability for short-term fabulousness. But don’t worry—this isn’t about guilt. It’s about waking up, owning your truth, and making money moves that serve your future self. Tune in for real talk, mindset shifts, and tips to help you stop faking financial security and start building it—for real this time. Takeaways: 💸 We're not just budgeting wrong—we're telling ourselves financial fairy tales. Too many LGBTQ folks are self-gaslighting when it comes to money, pretending they’re financially secure while secretly dodging their credit card statements. 👠 Champagne taste, ramen budget. The obsession with luxury and looking the part often wins out over being financially stable. 📸 Instagram ain't real life. A considerable number of LGBTQ adults feel the pressure to live big, bold, and bougie because of societal (and social media) expectations. But that curated feed won’t fund your future. 🎯 Goals aren’t just for gym bros. Without clear financial targets, it’s too easy to rack up debt and kiss your long-term savings goodbye. 🔥 Self-sabotage in sequins. Impulsive spending may feel fabulous in the moment, but it’s often a sparkly distraction from what matters—retirement, security, and peace of mind. 🤝 Get you a money buddy. Accountability partnerships can turn your financial “oops” into “I got this,” helping you stay aligned with your actual goals—not just your next splurge. Topics Covered on Gay Gaslighting: 00:04 – Setting the Stage (and the Standard) 01:20 – Gaslighting 101 04:30 – Pressure Cooker: Queer Edition 08:01 – Professional, Polished, and…Penniless? 09:21 – Swipe Now, Cry Later 11:45 – Get You Some Goals (and a Money Bestie) #queermoney #lgbtmoney #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #gaypodcast #queer #pride #personalfinance #gays #gay #gaslighting #gaygaslighting #spenders #savers #inequality