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🔴When the Narcissist Wants to Come Back – The New Supply Will See the Mask Slip

Please Subscribe ‪@NarcPedia‬ for various topics related to narcissism and narcissistic abuse. Let's heal and grow together! Thank You! Let's dive into a crucial topic for our discussion today: when a Narcissist realizes their desire to return to your life. This is a profound and important subject, and understanding this dynamic can offer valuable insights and, most importantly, validation for anyone who has been through such a grueling cycle. It's important to remember that this realization doesn't necessarily mean their immediate return. Rather, when this desire to return arises, there is often an intense and complex internal conflict that ignites, a battle waged within the Narcissist's mind that spills over, creating chaos for the New Supply. This conflict can be extremely intense and damaging. Yes, when a Narcissist comes to the realization that they want to return, it becomes a very significant event for the New Supply and the entire dynamic that comes with it. After the stages of devaluation and discard that you experienced — going through that whole painful situation with the Narcissist — they then move on to the New Supply. Initially, you might see them publicizing a display of happiness on social media, showcasing their new relationship as if everything is perfect and running smoothly. It's a highlight reel, a performance designed for an audience—and often, you are the primary audience member they have in mind. In your mind, you might think, "Okay, so they're just doing their thing, establishing a new dynamic with the New Supply. Everything's going well for them." However, behind the scenes, there's a different dynamic that you might not see. Even with the New Supply, the Narcissist often makes hidden attempts to test and vet them. This is especially true if the move to the New Supply was triggered by you—for instance, if you started asking too many questions, became too assertive, or told the Narcissist "no," thus hurting their fragile ego and forcing them to seek a New Supply before they were truly ready. In such scenarios, they might try to go back and forth with you until they can properly vet the New Supply. But let’s look deeper at this initial phase. Why is it so predictably short-lived? It comes down to the concept of narcissistic supply. The New Supply is intoxicating at first because they are a fresh source of admiration, attention, and validation. They haven't seen the cracks in the facade yet. The Narcissist is getting a steady, high-grade dose of what they need to feel superior and in control. But this "Golden Period" or love-bombing stage is built on an illusion. The Narcissist isn't in love with the person; they are in love with the reflection of themselves they see in the New Supply's adoring eyes. This idealization phase is inherently unstable. It's a fantasy. Once the New Supply starts showing their humanity—having a bad day, disagreeing on a small point, needing support for themselves—the fantasy shatters. The perfect mirror is now showing a crack, and the Narcissist is not just disappointed; they feel betrayed by reality itself. This is when the first seeds of boredom and resentment are planted. There's a significant turning point that occurs once they've been with the New Supply, usually about six to eight weeks later. At this point, they begin to feel a strong desire to return to the Old Supply (which is you). It's as if you're at the top of their "most wanted" list. Yet, this is merely a thought that arises in their mind; it doesn't mean they will immediately return or are preparing to do so. "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel." #Narcissist #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #ToxicRelationships #MentalHealth #NPD #Psychology #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder