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How to heal your negative self view as a Fearful Avoidant

As a Fearful Avoidant, you may live with a deep and constant belief that you’re “not safe.” Not inside yourself, and not with other people. And no amount of affirmations seems to touch it. You’re not alone. And this doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. This is a protective fear response: when you grew up around unpredictable reactions, your system learned to assume judgment, anger, and rejection are the default. So your self-image becomes: “I’m the problem.” And your view of others becomes: “People are unsafe.” In this video, I explain: • why fearful avoidants often carry a negative view of self and a negative view of others • why “working on self-worth” often doesn’t change the fear of being judged or getting in trouble • the surprising thing that did shift my self-view: studying secure reactions • how to build a clear picture for what a safe response looks like • how expecting a secure response helps you stop personalizing someone else’s dysregulation This is a must-watch if you ask: • “Why am I terrified of people being mad at me?” • “Why don’t affirmations or self-worth work for me?” • “How do I stop making other people’s reactions mean something about me?” #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmenttraumahealing #nervoussystemhealing #disorganizedattachment #fearbrain #healingfearfulavoidant #attachmenthealing #selfworthhealing ✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence? Join HEALED & HAPPY, my tailor-made online program where I guide you every step of the way: https://www.healedhappy.com 🔑 "I truly feel so much freedom and have noticed myself not acting on certain patterns that I never thought I could shake. I can't thank you enough for putting this program together!" Find all my FREE Resource to healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style FASTER and EASIER here:🔗 https://www.healingfa.com 💫 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Video Title: How to heal your negative self view as a Fearful Avoidant 00:00 What you learned growing up 05:19 How to heal these beliefs 06:07 1. Normalize Secure Reactions 09:47 2. Expect Secure Reactions 13:03 3. Choose Secure Reactions 17:46 How it helped me This video is about How to heal your negative self view as a Fearful Avoidant. But It also covers the following topics: how to stop personalizing criticism disorganized attachment shame patterns rebuilding internal safety after emotional volatility ✅ Stay Connected With Me. ‌👉Instagram:   / healingthefearfulavoidant   👉Facebook:   / healingthefearfulavoidant   ============================= ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 8 reactions securely attached people will likely have    • 8 reactions securely attached people will ...   👉5 things secure parents say to create a secure attachment    • Why you keep attracting the same kind of p...   👉11 Ways you are trying to be special    • 11 Ways you are trying to be special | Hea...   👉5 Reasons you punish yourself as a fearful avoidant & rewiring this deep nervous system pattern    • 5 Reasons you punish yourself as a fearful...   ============================= ✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken. ‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there. ‌ In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 450 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love. For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below: 📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com ================================= Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research. Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided. © Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant