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The Sociopaths Among Us: How to Spot (and Avoid) a Dark Triad

Have you ever had an abusive boss, a partner who gaslit you at every turn, or a friend who always seemed to bend the truth? You might have crossed paths with someone in the Dark Triad. On this episode of Office Hours, I’m diving into a topic that doesn’t create happiness but often destroys it: the Dark Triad personality constellation. These are the people with three characteristics: narcissism (it’s all about them), Machiavellianism (they’re willing to hurt you), and psychopathy (they feel little empathy or remorse when they do). Drawing on behavioral science research and evolutionary psychology, I explain what makes Dark Triads tick, how to recognize them before they hurt you, and why avoiding them is essential for your well-being. I also share what to look for instead—the Light Triad, people who trust others, believe in human dignity, and leave you feeling warm and uplifted in their presence. I discuss: • The core traits of the Dark Triad and how they drive destructive behavior • Which careers and environments attract dark triads and how to spot the red flags • How Machiavellianism shows up in politics (on both sides) • The science of emophilia and why people who fall in love too fast are Dark Triad targets • How Dark Triads thrive on social media (and the “first-date test” that can save you heartbreak) • The telltale behaviors that reveal a Dark Triad in work, love, and online • The defense tactic Dark Triads use when caught in a lie • What the Light Triad looks like • Audience Q&A on the connection between happiness and intelligence and how to comfort aging parents You can take my Dark Triad quiz today to find out where you fall ⁠https://www.arthurbrooks.com/quiz/dar... We’d love to hear any feedback you have. Please email us at [email protected]. And please leave a review on Apple or Spotify. Thanks for listening! Where to find Arthur Brooks: • Website: https://arthurbrooks.com/ • X: https://x.com/arthurbrooks • Instagram:   / arthurcbrooks   • Facebook:   / arthurbrooks   • YouTube:    / @drarthurbrooks   • LinkedIn:   / arthur-c-brooks   • Email: [email protected] Timestamps (00:00) Intro (02:04) What is the Dark Triad personality type? (06:09) How to take the Dark Triad test (06:37) Why Dark Triads are more common than you think (11:03) How to identify Dark Triad types (15:24) The five things Dark Triads do in the workplace (20:00) The five traits of Dark Triads in romantic relationships (28:11) How the Dark Triad shows up in politics and activism (32:11) Why social media is the perfect place for Dark Triads (34:34) The nine red flags that reveal a Dark Triad (37:05) DARVO: The defense Dark Triads use when caught (38:38) The light triad: What to look for instead (40:12) What’s the difference between joy and happiness? (42:35) What’s the connection between intelligence and happiness? (44:22) How do I comfort my ailing and aging parents about their imminent death? (46:30) Wrap up Referenced: • Leadership and Happiness course: https://www.hbs.edu/coursecatalog/188... • How to Build a Life: https://www.theatlantic.com/projects/... • The Happiness Files: Insights on Work and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-File... • The Dark Triad of personality: Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science... • The Prince: https://www.amazon.com/Prince-Niccolo... • Take the Dark Triad Quiz: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/quiz/dar... • Scott Barry Kaufman’s website: https://scottbarrykaufman.com/ • The Psychology Podcast: https://scottbarrykaufman.com/podcast/ • Dark Tetrad: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/ba... • The Criminal Psychopath: History, Neuroscience, Treatment, And Economics: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24944... • A gender role view of the Dark Triad traits: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science... • Occupational niches and the Dark Triad traits: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science... • The Dark Triad of Personality at Work – why do organizations need to know about it?: https://www.hogrefe.com/us/article/th... • Dark Triad traits and relationship dissolution: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science... • Political Hearts of Darkness: The Dark Triad as Predictors of Political Orientations and Interest in Politics: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles... Production and marketing by ⁠https://penname.co/⁠. Production provided by https://www.thebluewave.net. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email [email protected]