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Hold On To Your Kids | Dr. Gordon Neufeld | ABTY Podcast Episode 197

Join our mail list here for exclusive content here: https://ryanhartley.us19.list-manage.... Sign up for our January Good Fathers group here: https://abty.co.uk/good-fathers On episode 197 I am joined by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of the best selling book Hold on to Your Kids, co-authored with Dr. Gabor Maté. Before he retired, Dr. Gordon Neufeld had accumulated more than 40 years of experience as a clinical psychologist with children and youth and those responsible for them. A foremost authority on child development, Dr. Neufeld continues to be an international speaker, a best-selling author (Hold On to Your Kids) and a leading interpreter of the developmental paradigm. Dr. Neufeld has a widespread reputation for making sense of complex problems and for opening doors for change. While formerly involved in university teaching and private practice, he has devoted the best part of the last two decades to creating courses for parents, teachers and helping professionals. These courses are offered primarily through the Neufeld Institute – an online educational institute and world-wide charitable organization devoted to applying developmental science to the task of raising children. Dr. Neufeld’s lifes work has been to help adults provide the conditions for children to flourish. He is a father of five and a grandfather to seven. In this episode you will hear: 02:00 why parents are struggling 06:30 we are being educated out of our instincts 08:30 the universal force of attachment 11:30 peer orientation vs. the village of attachment 16:00 why it is so difficult for step-parents 19:00 our roles as fathers 20:30 a child’s natural desire to be good versus counter-will 21:00 true power isn’t something we draw attention to 25:30 we are the answer 27:30 universal principles of attachment 29:00 the paradox of independence 34:00 it is always too early to retire 38:00 who am I the same as and the importance of family values 41:30 pick your battles 44:00 the damage caused by sending them to their room 47:00 hold on to your kids 49:30 the impact of parents that are always on their phones 52:30 you’re not going to feel on the battlefield, but home is where we get our hearts back 56:30 vulnerability is the enemy and the essence of the bully 58:00 Dr. Gordon’s Heartprint 1:01:00 the most important believe to have as a parent I hope this interview inspires your heart-centred parenting. Please do subscribe, leave a little review, and share it with a parent you wish to inspire too. Always love Ryan Connect with Dr. Gordon Neufeld Website: https://neufeldinstitute.org/ Facebook:   / neufeldinstitute   YouTube:    / neufeldmedia   Connect with Always Better than Yesterday Website: https://abty.co.uk/ Instagram:   / alwaysbetterthanyesterdayuk   TikTok:   / abty_uk   LinkedIn:   / abty   Discord:   / discord   Facebook Community:   / weareabty   Thank you to our friends at Elevate OM, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions. Head to https://www.elevateom.com/ for Online Marketing & Web Design services that are affordable, bespoke & awesome. Please email your questions and comments to [email protected] #holdontoyourkids #gordonneufeld #gabormate