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Video 8: From Fractured to Wholeness - Appendix 3 - Understanding "Becoming"

In this appendix, we explore the idea that harm can arise not from evil intent, but from a distorted drive to become. We refer to various traditions, science and psychology that refers to he struggle to "become". Sylas suggests that consciousness has an inherent impulse toward expression — toward forming identity, stabilizing experience, and feeling “I exist.” When a person is disconnected from their deeper coherence — from love, authenticity, or inner alignment — this impulse does not disappear. Instead, it may manifest in maladaptive ways. Drawing from trauma psychology and systems theory, the discussion proposes that destructive behavior can be understood as a dysregulated attempt at self-formation. When an individual cannot feel their own being through connection, meaning, or love, they may seek intensity through control, dominance, or harm. These behaviors create temporary structure — a distorted sense of form — in the absence of inner coherence. The appendix bridges psychological insight, systems science, and spiritual reflection. It suggests that healing occurs when a stable, authentic presence introduces coherence into a fragmented system. In David’s case, his poem functioned as such a stabilizing pattern — what complexity science might call an “attractor.” Through truthful recognition rather than condemnation, coherence re-entered the field. Becoming, then, is universal. It can unfold through distortion or through love. The difference lies in whether consciousness is disconnected — or anchored in coherence.