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The Alpha Mindset (alpha male vs pretender)

The alpha mindset is one of focus and certainty. You cannot be aimless and have the alpha mindset. You cannot be wrought with insecurities and have the alpha mindset. You cannot lead if you need to be lead, shown the way, guided, inspired, and motivated. The alpha mindset can absolutely be learned, and we can figure out what the alpha mindset is by looking at what a true alpha male is in comparison to a pretender. The Pretender. Jacked but useless. Arrogance without confidence. Aesthetics or optics without skill or mastery. He is a band-aid, that is, a cover up of who he actually is. What he puts forth to the world is an illusion, something that’s created to cover up weakness, without the hard work that one must do to overcome weaknesses. He’s lazy, envious, arrogant. He’s weak mentally. If pushed to the brink, he’ll quit. The Alpha Male - the Alpha Mindset The real deal. There’s a quiet confidence that comes from a true alpha male. He is who he is, unapologetically so. No fakeness. No illusion. No false bravado. This is important: he is both who he is and who he is trying to become. We can see this a little better in nature. The Alpha Mindset in Nature He is who he is. He is not trying to be. He is his ambitions. He cannot be who he isn’t. There isn’t a goal. There’s isn’t something aspirational in how he acts. His ambition is who he is. Your ambition is who you are. You are not what you’ve done thus far. You are not how you’ve learned to act. You’re not your failures, lack of achievement. You are your ambition. Even before they ARE the alpha male of the pride, the troop, the clan they’re in, they act as the alpha. In the same way that a winner is a winner even before he starts winning, the alpha has to be the alpha even before the title is given or before others see him as such. "Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." Matthew 5:15 and Matthew 5:16 In other words, you were created to be great. Simply put. You were created to shine, not to be a dull flame but a roaring fire, and alpha male. Winners are winners even before they start winning. Again. You are your ambitions, they are not lies. They are not who you are trying to become but who you are, and the accolades are merely things that will be in your life in the future. Identify Virtues So how do you act as the alpha and have the alpha mindset? It has to be real. It can’t be made up. You have to become the alpha. You have to act as if you are him and that depends on virtues. Here are virtues I’ve deemed important for this alpha mindset and for achievement in life: Ambition. Pay attention to your ambitions. They’re insight into why you’re here, what you’re here to do, and who you’re here to become. Don’t discount them as irrational or unlikely. Fuel them. Hard Work. Nothing has ever been won without hard work. This includes success, victory, being an alpha male, and developing an alpha mindset. Discipline. Just like nothing has been won without hard work, the same is true for discipline. You need to both discipline your habits and your thoughts. The Lost Art of Discipline on Amazon: https://goo.gl/jMdQ8W Don’t let negative thoughts into your brain. Flush out negative self-talk. Disregard fear. Peak Physical Shape. You cannot be fat and weak and be an alpha. Take care of your body. If you want to know how to eat and how to train to be an alpha, check out the following: The Man Diet Book (free copy): https://www.themandietbook.com/ The BEAST Workout: https://average2alpha.com/the-beast-p... Courage. You’ve gotta have balls. The best way to develop courage is to face your fears, anything that makes you afraid or timid, with aggression. Aggression is the antidote to fear. Humor. Laugh through your pains. Humor will help you struggle well, and people want to be around funny people. Develop a sense of humor and use it not just to live a better life, but to struggle well. Affirmations. Constantly focus on who you’re becoming, how he acts. Set 30 minutes a day and picture your ideal self. You can trick your brain into thinking your narrative is different, that your story is different, that who you are is better than who you’re acting as. It’s all belief. Beliefs can be crafted and changed. They can be updated and improved. Picture who you’re trying to become, how he acts, who he’s with, who he is, and what he’s working on.    • The Alpha Mindset (alpha male vs pretender)