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Give Grace to Yourself

It's easy to get angry at people. They're out to get you! They're evil! They're thinking negative things about you. They're conspiring, coniving, manipulative folks - and maybe, that's true. But the truth is, when we are resentful of others it is often because we are subconsciously insecure. We don't give ourselves grace. We resent ourselves. And then, all it takes is that one obnoxious person to verify and substantiate all the negative things we already secretly believe about ourselves. So what do we do about it? Start by acknowledging your own insecurities. Not as something to fix - but as something to understand. Give yourself grace to be insecure, to feel however you feel - and then choose to act deliberately regardless of those feelings of doubt. Then, take it a step forward. Remember that everyone else has insecurities, too. It's not just you. It's the human condition. And start giving other people grace, also. Give people grace for their ignorance, their cruelty, their manipulative behaviors. That doesn't mean that anything goes. It doesn't mean that you allow controllable failure. It doesn't mean you permit people to harm you - any more than understanding your own insecurities or doubts means you get to allow those things to paralyze you. But it does mean you treat others with an attitude of selfless love, and abundance. If you see your own life as full of abundance, you won't spend your life feeling like others are out to rob you of the little you have. If you see others as deserving grace - and give yourself grace - then you'll be in a position to help uplift those around you, instead of being stuck in a state of discouragement. The truth is, you can't show others grace until you first learn to give yourself grace. You can't love others if you don't love yourself. You can't show empathy - while also maintaining firm standards - if you don't apply the same rule in your life. Give yourself room to be human. But don't let your humanity lock you in a cage of self-limiting beliefs.