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Become Irresistibly Attractive by NOT GIVING A F*CK!

The secret to becoming ATTRACTIVE AF in less than 10 minutes! Join The Magnetic Mastery Membership here: ➡️ http://www.magneticmastery.com In this video I'm gonna show you why not giving a fuck, will make you way more irresistible, will magnetize your energy in a very powerful way. And I'm gonna show you exactly how to do it in this video. Now, the first thing to understand about this concept is that when we talk about value and emitting out value, understand that people that value certain things come off more needy. People that value other people's validation and approval, they are emitting out where they really, really give a shit about what people think about them. They really, really care if other people are giving them validation or attention and because they are seeking that approval, because they are seeking and they value those things and they want other people to reflect that back to them, they then put these things on a pedestal. And what ends up happening is from that they then end up creating needy energy. Now, the degree to which you are not needy, is the degree to which you are magnetic or attractive. The more attractive you will be, the less needy you will be. But neediness stems from giving shit about the things that do not serve you, about giving a shit about things that are literally having you put other people on a pedestal. I said, pedestal, this time, not pedestool, 'cause some of you sometimes correct me in my YouTube videos, but I don't care. But I did, I do acknowledge that that is the word, right? For this though, there's a book, it's called, "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck". And it's a very powerful book because it basically talks about all the things that we really, really care about. The things that we're really, really attached to. And it shows that in life, we are going to be attached to something. We are going to value something. Most people though, are valuing things that their parents valued. And that's the only reason they valued them. My dad was a nice guy. Still is a nice guy. And part of being nice is some people look at that and go, well, that's a really good thing. Being nice though, a lot of times is I'm going to be nice to you because there's conditional energy there. And if I'm nice to you, then you're gonna be nice back to me. I'm going to avoid tension and tell you what I think you wanna hear, even though it's not maybe vulnerable or authentic, as long as in exchange, you're nice to me, because I don't want you to be not nice. So of course my dad then attracted my ex stepmom who was not nice at all because that was the polar opposite. My stepmom's narcissist, abusive physically, mentally, emotionally and that to him was something that I think it was the polar opposite. That's why he attracted it. And then in my life, what I had to learn to do is to let go of valuing other people's approval. Other people's validation. I had to let that go and realize it doesn't actually serve me, because the thing is, is when it comes to being a people pleaser, when it comes to being a nice guy or a nice girl, when it comes to validating or wanting the validation, the approval in these things, the idea is that if I am this way, then I will get these things in exchange. But that is what repels love. That is what is actually manipulative energy as well. It's trying to manipulate people and see, the thing is when you're a nice guy or a people pleaser, you become a magnet to narcissists, because narcissists are also manipulative. So one's manipulating to get, say, I give you this and in exchange, you will give me validation and approval. And the narcissist says, I'm gonna manipulate you or gaslight you into giving me what I want and to take I'll take it. And they're both formed under a similar trauma. Now, the reason I'm sharing this is because the difference is in the value, what these people value. If somebody values approval and validation, they will change themselves and do whatever they can in order to get that in exchange. And if somebody values being certain, of these are by the way based in insecurity, there's an insecure feeling there. And in order to compensate, they try to control. One tries to control other people's perceptions by being nice and giving, in exchange because you probably wouldn't give, if you started giving somebody something and you wanted to exchange, you wanted them to approve of your validating and they don't do that, you're probably gonna stop giving it to them. But I was nice to this person, and they were not nice back to me, but maybe that being nice, wasn't actually authentic, right? So when we talk about attachment we talk about giving a shit. If you give a shit what people think about you is because you value what people think about you. You may even internalize and say, I am what other people think about me. So the key to this is becoming aware of why do I value that?