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❤️ Why Vietnamese Women Prefer Being With Western Men... Part 4

❤️ Why Vietnamese Women Prefer Being With Western Men... Part 4 In this last video, I am about to share with you another 5 reasons why mature Vietnamese women in Vietnam prefer to be with Western men. By mature, I mean women who were born before and within a few years after the Vietnam War since that’s a crucial event in the country’s history. These reasons are based on my own experiences and from many mature Vietnamese women that I have had a chance to talk to. Before I go on, I would like to emphasize to you that the most important factors are your sincerity and for who you are. I just want to remind you that a gentleman is still a gentleman no matter where he comes from. 14. Independent - Not a Mama’s Boy. Many Vietnamese men would stay with their parents and family, even after they got married. They are used to weighing their parents, especially their moms’ opinion heavily. Many times, their relationship or marriage can be affected quite much. On the other hand, the majority of Western men move out of their parents’ house by the age of 18. Therefore, these Western men have learned to make their own decisions and not rely on their parents all the time. By saying that, I don’t mean to say every Vietnamese man or every Western man would all be like that. Once you are a Mama’s boy, you’ll always be a Mama’s boy regardless. 15. More Willing To Admit They’re Wrong. As I mentioned, the Vietnamese culture is male oriented so even if a Vietnamese man knows he’s wrong or has made a mistake, it’s very rare that he will admit it. Vietnamese language does have a phrase for “I’m sorry” but a Vietnamese man rarely, if ever, uses it with his lady. Using this phrase can be perceived as being weak and can lead to ridicule by his male friends. As you can imagine, this can cause problems in the relationship because this unwillingness to face these situations communicates that the woman is not an equal. This inequality, of course, can build up resentment over time and damages the relationship. 16. More Willing To Support Her Ambition. In Vietnam, once a woman reaches her 30s or 40s and especially if she’s had children, it’s generally viewed that she should put her ambition and goals in the backseat to her man and her family. Thus, any discussion about her going back to school, focusing on her career or starting a new career is almost non-existent. This situation is mainly because the society is still male dominated and in many cases, a Vietnamese man also does not like his woman to be more successful than him. A Western man is far more likely to support his lady’s ambition and life goals. In fact, he often even encourages her to pursue her dreams because he knows that denying what you want often ends up leading to unhappiness. 17. Is OK With Her Being Sexy. Most Vietnamese men admire well dressed women...as long as it’s not his lady. If a Vietnamese woman dresses up just because she wants to feel good about herself, she’ll often have to explain to her man that there’s no ulterior motive. After a while, she’s resigned to not dressing up because of the continual explaining she has to do. I have seen many very attractive women in Vietnam in a relationship who go out in public dressed in very casual clothes, almost the equivalent of gym sweats. At first, I thought it was because they didn’t care about their appearances when in reality, it’s because she doesn’t want to deal with the hassles of having to explain why she’s dressing up. A Western man is far less likely to be as dominating or controlling about how his lady dresses. In many cases, he would even buy flattering outfits for his lady since he knows that dressing up, for many women, is a way to raise their confidence and feel good about themselves. 18. Less Judgmental About Her Ancestry. This may come as a surprise to you, but a Vietnamese man will pass on an amazing lady because he and/or his parents don’t think her ancestry is good enough. In other words, she can be educated and successful but if her parents are not as fortunate due to economic reasons, he will pass on marrying her or he will use that to belittle her. In other words, she’s being judged for something that happened before she was born! As you can imagine, this is completely unfair to the woman, and unfortunately, it happens a lot. I’ve personally experienced it, and I’ve seen it many times with people I know. When you meet a mature Vietnamese woman, be aware of this, and please understand that she may not be as open initially for this and other reasons I’ve shared. That's it for this series. Once again, I would like to remind you that if you are looking to settle down with a nice, decent mature woman in general, and Vietnamese woman in particular, you yourself must be that person first. Thanks so much for your time. If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to share them in the comment section below. I, Vanessa Ho, would do my best to respond to them.