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When & Why Anxiously Attached People Cheat in Relationships

When an anxiously attached person cheats, it’s rarely about chasing excitement or novelty. More often, it’s about feeling unseen, unwanted, or unimportant in their relationship — and finding emotional validation elsewhere. In this video, I share the common reasons anxiously attached people might become vulnerable to infidelity, including their tendency towards emotional affairs and how cheating can sometimes become a bridge to leaving a relationship they struggle to walk away from. We’ll cover: How unmet needs for closeness, reassurance, and feeling chosen create vulnerability to outside attention Why emotional affairs are common for anxious attachers How external validation can become a point of comparison to the primary relationship The “off-ramp/on-ramp” dynamic of mate-switching Why cheating often comes with deep emotional investment for anxious attachers Free Resources How to Heal Anxious Attachment: https://stephanierigg.com/how-to-heal... Anxious Attachment Starter Kit: https://www.stephanierigg.com/anxious... 00:00 Introduction 01:10 Free Resources for Anxious Attachment 01:46 Why Anxiously Attached People Cheat 02:04 Feeling Invisible as a Precursor to Infidelity 03:36 The Role of External Validation 04:43 Cheating as a "Mate-Switching" Strategy 06:25 How to Shift This Pattern 08:06 Closing Thoughts