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BREAKING THE FAMILY CODE: WHEN SILENCE BECOMES SURVIVAL!

#childhoodtrauma #traumahealing #mentalhealthawareness 🧐What if the family rule "what happens in this house stays in this house" has been slowly destroying you from the inside out? When does keeping family secrets stop being loyalty and start becoming a prison sentence for your mental health? In the inaugural episode of 4624, siblings Ed Averette and L Michelle Salvant expose the dangerous family code of silence that keeps childhood trauma locked away and festering for decades. Named after their shared childhood address where abuse occurred behind closed doors, they courageously break the unspoken rules that demanded their silence. Ed reveals the crushing guilt he felt at age 10 when he finally spoke up about physical abuse to a friend, believing he had "snitched" on his family and betrayed their code of keeping problems internal. His confession led to immediate removal by authorities and him becoming "property of the state"—a rescue that felt like punishment because he had violated the family's sacred rule of silence. L Michelle explores how cultural and community pressures reinforce this code, teaching children that speaking up equals disloyalty and that enduring pain silently is somehow noble. Together, they dismantle the myth that family secrets protect anyone, revealing instead how silence becomes a survival mechanism that ultimately poisons relationships, perpetuates cycles of abuse, and transforms victims into carriers of unresolved trauma. With raw vulnerability and faith as their foundation, the siblings create a safe space for listeners to question their own family codes and recognize when silence stops being protection and starts being self-destruction. Chapter/Timestamps: 00:00 - 05:30 Breaking the Silence: From Amusement Parks to Real Talk 05:30 - 12:30 The Default Trap: How Ten-Year-Olds Run Adult Lives 12:30 - 21:00 The Price of Breaking the Code: When Speaking Up Feels Like Betrayal 21:00 - 28:00 Property of the State: When Rescue Feels Like Punishment for Breaking Silence 👍If this episode resonates with you, please like, comment, and subscribe. Share your story in the comments below—your voice matters and could help someone else feel less alone in their healing journey. 🛟This is a safe space for healing. Please be respectful in the comments and support fellow survivors sharing their experiences. Resources: 📞If you or someone you know is struggling with childhood trauma, please reach out to a mental health professional or contact the SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-4357