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Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Person (It's Not What You Think)

💥FREE GIFT from Passion From Pain! Get Amy's Guide: “From Confusion to Clarity: 10 SIgns of a Manipulative & Mentally Abusive Relationship”: https://get.passionfrompain.com/from-... Why do smart, self-aware people keep ending up with the wrong partners? It's not bad luck. It's not low self-esteem. It's your attachment style—and it's been running the show since childhood. Join Amy Pease and author Deborah Lukovich for a thought-provoking discussion from "When Sex Meets God: A Midlife Unraveling." The conversation touches upon themes reminiscent of jungian psychology and depth psychology, offering a nuanced perspective. Listen to the full episode on Passion From Pain, The Podcast! We go deep on: Why you're attracted to emotionally unavailable people (and they're attracted to you) The neuroscience behind trauma bonds—and why "just leave" doesn't work How your childhood programmed you to accept less than you deserve The difference between anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment styles What family court battles reveal about narcissistic manipulation Practical tools to break the cycle and build secure relationships This isn't about blaming yourself. This is about understanding the invisible patterns controlling your choices—so you can finally choose differently. If you've ever asked yourself "Why do I keep doing this?"—this episode is for you. ABOUT DR. DEBORAH LUKOVICH: Dr. Deborah Lukovich is a licensed clinical psychologist, attachment theory expert, and trauma recovery specialist. She works with individuals navigating narcissistic abuse, family court systems, and complex relationship trauma. Her approach combines neuroscience, attachment research, and real-world strategies for healing. Find Dr. Deborah: Website: www.deborahlukovich.com When Sex Meets God: A Midlife Unraveling - link on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/When-Sex-Meets... RESOURCES MENTIONED: Attachment Theory 101 Trauma Bonding Explained Nervous System Regulation Techniques TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Cold Open 2:44 - Welcome to Passion From Pain 3:15 - Meet Dr. Deborah Lukovich 5:20 - The Midlife Unraveling Begins 9:45 - The Magazine That Changed Everything 12:30 - When Everything Falls Apart at Once 16:10 - The Unconscious Knows Before You Do 19:25 - The First Twinge of Discontent 23:40 - Depression as Communication (Not a Problem) 27:15 - Sitting in the Dark Night of the Soul 30:50 - When Sex Meets God: The Split Between Desire & Spirituality 38:20 - The Fifty Shades Phenomenon & Cultural Wounds 42:35 - Online Dating as Unconscious Work 46:10 - The Transformative Relationship That Changed Everything 50:25 - Why We Don't Bash Our Exes (Conscious Uncoupling) 54:15 - Dreams: What People Get Wrong About Symbols 58:53 - Final Message: Your Falling Apart Has Meaning 1:00:06 - Outro & Credits 🔥ABOUT PASSION FROM PAIN: This is the podcast for survivors of manipulation, mental abuse, and toxic relationships who are rebuilding their lives. No toxic positivity. No fluff. Just raw truth, actionable strategies, and real conversations about the hard parts of healing. Host: Amy Pease Website: www.passionfrompain.com Instagram: @amy.pease.rox TikTok: @og.passionfrompain 👉Join the Inner Circle:   / 15fhocryak   FREE GIFT! “From Confusion to Clarity: 10 SIgns of a Manipulative & Mentally Abusive Relationship”: https://get.passionfrompain.com/from-... SUPPORT THE SHOW: 👍 Like this video 🔔 Subscribe for weekly episodes 💬 Comment below: What's your attachment style? Let's talk about it. 📤 Share this with someone who needs to hear it 😎Join Our Patreon (Become a Founding Member!): https://patreon.com/PassionFromPain?u... KEYWORDS: attachment theory, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, narcissistic abuse, trauma bonding, toxic relationships, why you choose the wrong person, relationship patterns, childhood trauma, emotional unavailability, dating advice, narcissist recovery, family court, custody battle, neuroscience of relationships, how to break toxic patterns #PassionFromPain #AttachmentTheory #ToxicRelationships #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaBonding #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #HealingJourney #MentalHealthPodcast #SurvivorStory #EmotionalAbuse #TraumaRecovery #SelfAwareness #healthyrelationships ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. © 2026 Passion From Pain. All rights reserved.