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CHURCH HURT: What it really is, Why is happens, and How God heals it

0:00 – Who is Pastor Dwayne Lemon? 2:05 – Introducing Dwayne Lemon Consulting (marriage, mental health, porn recovery) 4:10 – Why this topic matters: God’s people are hurting 5:30 – Opening prayer 7:05 – What is “church hurt” really? 11:55 – The church as light, truth & reflection of Christ 16:20 – Neglect as a form of spiritual abuse 20:10 – Causes of church hurt: when we become ministers of harm 23:40 – First major cause: being “too sensitive” 28:50 – Positions, leadership & why we don’t own our roles 33:40 – Identity, significance & church offices 38:30 – When your role becomes your identity 43:20 – Truth that makes us free from false identity 47:40 – Paul in prison: “Your demotion is God’s promotion” 51:30 – Coaching principle: people believe what they confess 55:40 – Walking through correction with compassion 1:00:20 – Receiving rebuke: Romans 10, Job 5 & Jeremiah 20 1:05:40 – Church hurt vs quitting the work God gave you 1:10:10 – Longsuffering, patience & winning souls (James 5) 1:14:40 – Christ’s method alone: mingling, sympathy, meeting needs 1:19:20 – How to talk to the hurt: listening like Jesus (Psalm 116) 1:23:40 – “I’m just being a watchman”: testing that claim biblically 1:27:40 – Speaking the truth in love: Ephesians 4 & 1 Corinthians 13 1:31:30 – How love rebukes: John the Baptist, righteous judgment & real care 1:34:00 – Part 2 preview, channels info & closing prayer 💔 What exactly is church hurt? Where does it come from? And how do believers find healing — biblically, practically, and emotionally? In this powerful conversation hosted by the Advent Defense League, Elder Dwayne Lemon breaks down one of the most misunderstood topics in the Christian experience. With nearly 20 years of global ministry, decades of counseling couples and individuals, and deep transparency about his own journey, Pastor Lemon brings clarity, compassion, and conviction to a subject affecting thousands in the body of Christ. 👉 If you’re looking for help with marriage struggles, mental health battles, or porn addiction recovery, be sure to check out Elder Dwayne’s dedicated coaching channel:    / @dwaynelemonconsulting   There you’ll find content focused on marriage restoration, emotional wellness, identity, and practical tools for change. Whether your hurt came from leadership, fellow members, or misunderstandings within the church, this message will help you identify: ✔ When church hurt is caused by oversensitivity ✔ When it is legitimate and must be addressed ✔ Why neglect is a form of spiritual abuse ✔ How false identity fuels offense ✔ Why biblical rebuke must always be rooted in love, patience, and gentleness ✔ How to restore relationships and rebuild trust ✔ How to become a safe place for broken people in the church This interview is filled with scriptural wisdom, real-life examples, psychological insight, and timeless gospel truth. Grab a notebook — this is Part 1, and the foundation laid here is essential before moving into the deeper issues of legitimate wounds, accountability, and healing (coming in Part 2). 🔥 Key Scriptures Discussed Matthew 5 1 Timothy 3:15 Psalm 119:105 Proverbs 6:23 John 9:5 Ecclesiastes 7:9 John 8:32–34 Revelation 3:19 1 Corinthians 13 James 5:19–20 John 7:24 …and many more. 🎧 More from Elder Dwayne Lemon ▶ PTH Ministries (this channel) For sermons, revivals, evangelism training, and messages especially for the Adventist family and wider Christian community. ▶ Dwayne Lemon Consulting (Coaching, Mental Health & Marriage Focus) For content on: Marriage and family restoration Mental and emotional health Porn addiction recovery and men’s work Identity, purpose, and practical life change Subscribe here:    / @dwaynelemonconsulting   🙏 Start Your Healing Journey If you’re ready to experience Christ-centered emotional renewal, heart work, and mental resilience, join the upcoming program: Repairing the Broken Heart — Begins January 6 Register now: https://dwayne-lemon.com/repair ✍️ Let us know in the comments: • What part of this conversation spoke to you most deeply? Your experience may help someone else find hope.