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Fixing Your Picker: How to Stop Choosing Abusive Partners

Many people find themselves in relationship patterns they don’t fully understand — especially after growing up around dysfunction, trauma, or emotional harm. In this powerful and eye-opening interview, we sit down with Dr. Debra Wingfield, a nationally respected educator, counselor, and author with more than 50 years of experience working in the fields of domestic abuse, coercive control, trauma, and prevention. Together, we unpack what people often call “your picker” — the internal compass that guides romantic choices — and how trauma, early family dynamics, and unresolved wounds can quietly steer us toward harmful relationships. In this episode, we discuss: • What coercive control really is — and why it’s often missed • Why red flags are ignored or rationalized, even by strong women • How childhood experiences shape adult relationship choices • The difference between charm and character • Practical steps to break cycles of choosing abusive partners • How to develop a healthier, safer internal guide for relationships This conversation is for anyone who has: • A history of emotionally or psychologically abusive relationships • Questions about why certain patterns keep repeating • A desire to heal, grow, and choose healthy love moving forward Whether you’re dating, healing from past abuse, or supporting someone who is, this interview offers clarity, validation, and hope. 📅 Recorded: Thursday, January 15 at 12 PM 🔔 Be sure to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs it. #FixingYourPicker #RedFlags #CoerciveControl #DomesticAbuseAwareness #HealthyRelationships #TraumaHealing #EmotionalAbuse #RelationshipPatterns