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Leading At Home Series: Loving and Leading Your Wife Well

In this episode of the Equipped to Lead Podcast (Leading at Home series), Corey Couture and Pastor Josh Chambers slowdown in Ephesians 5:25–28 to answer a question every husband needs to face: Am I leading like Jesus—or just claiming the title? The Bible doesn’t call husbands to be “the boss.” It calls us to *love like Christ*—a leadership marked by sacrifice, spiritual responsibility, tenderness, and steady presence. We unpack what it means to love your wife with *cross-shaped love*: *sacrificial*, *sanctifying*, and *nourishing/cherishing*—then bring it all down to street level with practical steps men can actually live this week. You’ll also hear what loving leadership looks like in everyday rhythms: initiating prayer and hard conversations, listening without defensiveness, protecting your wife (including from your own sin), providing beyond money, and leading spiritually without being weird. Key Takeaways Your standard isn’t other men—it’s Jesus. Christlike headship is never harsh, controlling, or selfish (Eph. 5:25–28). Love is a decision that costs you. Sacrificial leadership means dying to comfort, pride, convenience, and distraction. A husband sets the spiritual climate of the home. You can’t change her heart, but you can cultivate a home where faith is normal and repentance is real. Nourish + cherish is daily tenderness, not occasional grand gestures. Build her up, speak life, protect her peace, and be steady. Loving leadership is initiative. Go first: prayer, hard conversations, repentance, rest, and help. Listening is leadership. Drop defensiveness, seek understanding, and prove you’re safe and present. Protection includes protecting her from you. Guard your tone, anger, sarcasm, lust, neglect, and workaholism—make home a refuge. Provision is bigger than a paycheck. Presence, planning, stability, and shared burdens are part of loving her well. Spiritual leadership can be simple. One short passage, one question, one short prayer—five minutes is enough to start. Weekly application: repent quickly, plan intentional time, serve specifically, speak appreciation out loud, pray together once.   Chapter List 00:00 Introduction to Leading at Home 07:17 Sacrificial Love in Marriage 10:30 Sanctifying Love and Spiritual Leadership 17:26 Nourishing and Cherishing Love 24:33 Practical Steps for Loving Leadership 33:16 Loving Leadership Listens 35:48 The Importance of Listening in Relationships 39:15 Practical Tips for Effective Communication 41:37 Understanding Protection in Leadership 46:02 Financial Stability and Communication 48:22 Emotional and Mental Provision 53:50 Loving Leadership Provides Beyond Money 01:08:26 Actionable Steps for Improvement