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Leading children to co-operation

🟠 Must watch for anyone looking for alternatives to being in the ‘one-down’ position when it comes to parent-child-relationships. In this conversation Certified Positive Discipline Lead Trainer and Adlerian trained therapist Lois Ingber shares a fresh new perspective on the difference between co-operating from mutual respect or being compliant and obedient. Based on Alfred Adler’s “The ironclad logic of social living is equality”, Lois demonstrates her insightful and thought-provoking activity called the “Dignity Double Bind”. Helping parents develop a strong relationship with their child - most know that connection and love are essential. What may be so interesting to learn in raising responsible and self-directed future adults - is that there is a crucial other side of the coin that may be overlooked in most discussions about parenting. This experienced and commonsensical licensed clinical social-worker also reveals a profoundly discerning question when it comes to the statement: ‘rewards work’. 🔗 Connect with Lois here: lois@adlerianconsulting.com Order 'Kids Tool Cards' co-authored by Lois: https://www.positivediscipline.com/pr... Become a Positive Discipline Parent or Classroom Educator: https://www.positivediscipline.org Learn about Adlerian Psychology: https://www.adlerpedia.org North American Society of Adlerian Psychology (NASAP): https://www.alfredadler.org International Committee for Adlerian Summer Schools and Institutes (ICASSI): https://www.icassi.net International Association of Individual Psychology, based in Austria: https://adler-iaip.net Watch more effortless parenting videos:    / @effortlessparenting   00:00 Preview & Introduction 05:39 Doing ourselves out of a job 08:22 From top down to mutual respect 11:05 From Laddership to Leadership 17:30 Developing a sense of significance through contribution 29:10 The "Dignity Double Bind" 38:02 Testing behaviour is a positive sign 43:06 Doing to vs. for vs. together 46:09 The Power Contest 52:22 Special Service from Entitlement 53:31 Firmness not Meanness 53:52 Do rewards work? 1:00:00 Gemeinschaftsgefühl ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 🌱 3 Free Tips : Start your day in an effortless way ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Sign up here to receive this free download: ⮕ http://eepurl.com/gB5Rrn ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Free Parenting Blog ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Receive notifications to read my monthly blog posts and find out how Adlerian principles may be applied to parenting: ⮕ https://www.effortlessparenting.ie/blog ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Join 9-month membership 💦 effortless flow ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Parenting is a journey, some say it takes a village to raise children. Meet other parents and share your discoveries in a confidential setting and explore the power of community. Lifetime access to my full video library to watch all modules of my parenting course (at your own pace privately) is included: ⮕ https://www.effortlessparenting.ie/ev... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 📖 Parents’ Stories ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Other parents and care-givers share their results: ⮕ https://www.effortlessparenting.ie/pa... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ☎️ Free effortless call ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Select a time and date that suits you and hear what this approach can resolve: ⮕ https://calendly.com/effortlessparenting ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 🌳 Social Media links ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ⮕ https://linktr.ee/effortlessparenting ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 🟠 Connect through my website ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ⮕ https://www.effortlessparenting.ie ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ About me 👩🏻 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ My name is annett and I am passionate about shifting the parenting paradigm. I believe that every parent deserves to live in a 🌟calmer home🌟 . More About me:    • Truly democratic parenting: Order WITH Fre...   ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 💡Solutions ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Receive skills and tools for: Strong-willed child, Boundaries, Self-regulation, Self-awareness, Screen-time, Not listening, Social media behaviour, Smartphone, Sibling rivalry, Bedtime, Dawdling, Being on time, Mealtimes, Homework, Shouting & name calling, Sharing, Parental self-care, Blaming others, Shaming, Grief and losing a loved one, Winching, Interrupting, Fighting, Tantrums, Tidying and helping, Too competitive, Teenager rebels or retreats, Video games, Addiction, Lying and stealing, Authoritarian - Permissive - Autocratic - Neglectful - Authoritative, Impatience & frustration, Attention-seeking, Bad habits, Feeling guilty, Young child saying ‘NO’, Shaming, Not co-operating, Respecting others, Back-talk, Perfectionist, mistakes, ​Hurting, hitting, biting, Relentlessness of parenting #effortlessparenting #adler #adlerian #postivediscipline #parenting #parents #parentingjourney #coparenting