NARCISSISTIC/BORDERLINE ENABLING: PAPA TRAUMA AND THE ENABLING FATHER скачать в хорошем качестве

NARCISSISTIC/BORDERLINE ENABLING: PAPA TRAUMA AND THE ENABLING FATHER

Enabling fathers can create a type of Papa Trauma that leaves us feeling confused, and often sad, angry and struggling with how to even feel about these types of fathers. Did he do his best? Could he have protected us? Why did he allow her/him to treat us that way? By being in denial, absent, powerless themselves, or even complicit, the enabling father creates more emotional abandonment for those who have mothers or fathers (or primary caregivers) who struggled with Narcissism or Borderline, or other wounds that made it difficult for us in our childhoods. Doing nothing is still a choice. Refusing to see or protect or engage is still a choice a parent makes. But because the enabling parent is often "so much kinder, easier to deal with or didn't really do anything to us" it can make it quite difficult to unpack exactly how we really feel about his parent. Anger, longing, sadness...all are often under the surface of our pain. This video explores the Enabling Father and 4 ways he can be an enabler. xo http://www.drkimsage.com Tik Tok: drkimsage