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Feeling Drained, Getting Past a Relationship

I apologise for the lateness of this response; life has been busy. I appreciate you guys. I know this video is long but I hope it can help someone out there. I invite you to use the Anonymous Google Form: https://forms.gle/CcRnnrovqGBBmRRd6 Music: Darkness - Pinegrove Wrong - Dead Calm Sometimes - Alex G I Wait For You - Alex G Break - Alex G She's Electric Demo - Oasis Bonehead's Bank Holiday Demo - Oasis A Love Like Her - BluNites Punch Drunk - Couch Dog Have A Nap - Pleaser Don't Look Back in Anger - Oasis Cast No Shadow - Oasis my notes: this is another video of one of your guys’ struggles sent through the anonymous google form and my attempt to help and bring awareness in some way. -read message depression and bullying, i applaud you for overcoming those challenges. they’re very real and relatable and im proud of you for having come so far. those are whole videos in it of themselves. i very much so understand this message. i’m glad you’re no longer in an unhealthy relationship. Experiences no matter how short are still very influential on us. Its important to learn from all of this even if it wasnt a pleasant experience you can still learn more about yourself and how you handle certain people and what sort of relationships are healthiest for you. this is a sensitive topic in nature and many will have differing views. people with issues, which is everyone, do deserve love the same. but i’ve come to learn that at this point in life we cannot be weighing one another down in our relationships, true love is not draining it’s replenishing. nobody is going to be able to save someone else you’re not to be someone’s knight in shining armor. you do make sense when you say you feel drained after it all and especially during. i really want to emphasize how much i relate to all these messages people have been sending and i really relate with this one. during the relationship i was in it was always me giving my 110% to her and supporting her endlessly through her struggles. She has many serious issues which i wont get into because its not my place to speak on that. My identity isnt a secret so its pretty easy to know who i speak of when i refer to this ex girlfriend Right now we’re meant to discover, live, and experience. If you disagree with the things i say then youre totally free to believe what you want. Woody often says that people arent meant to be with the same person around the ages 13-22. Its like if you stayed in the same small town all your life. Of course theres some people who love their small town and if it truly is healthiest then sure its totally within their liberty to choose to stay in the small town. But what i mean to say is that most people do need to go out and experience and this goes beyond just relationships. Try to say yes to every opportunity, every good opportunity not the ones like hitting a vape. My brother and one of my friends follow very similar philosophies which is: does it harm myself or others right now or in the future. And will this make me feel genuinely fulfilled or is it hurting my body/mind. this could come off as selfish, but once you realize that taking care of yourself is probably the healthiest thing you can do then it’ll come together. you have gotta treat yourself the same as another relationship. our relationships are like gardens and the same way you wanted to pour out water and make the garden between you and your ex beautiful, you have to tend to your own personal garden. you can’t neglect yourself and totally be devoted to someone else. that’s how you burn out. it just wasn’t going to happen no matter how much you did because her roots weren’t properly healthy, and only she can really do something about that. we can help people get to the position they need to succeed but ultimately they are the ones who need to choose for themselves to heal. you can provide medicine to a sick patient but they need to take it for themselves, you can encourage someone to climb a mountain and support them on but they’ve gotta be the ones to climb it. that genuine connection you felt definitely will be found in others. There is a possibility it could just be infatuation for the most part but who am i to say what you felt. But yeah there is love and it exists out there for you. who knows, if it is truly is ‘meant to be’ then you guys will find your way back to one another once you’ve come to be in healthier positions of life as individuals. But also know that there is an entire world of people out there Take a moment to slow down and really absorb yourself in a moment. Try not to be preoccupied with something else. If youre going to do something then give it your full attention in this moment and find appreciation in each moment. When youre at band just focus on band not anything else. Take the time to make things less of a chore and more so an opportunity to find value in life. Thats for you to figure out for yourself. I will always love and prefer the rant.