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We Don't Keep Secrets Song | Body Safe Songs for Toddlers and Kids | Body Safety with Ollie

We Don't Keep Secrets Song written by Lisa Jay for Learn with Ollie. Check out our other body safe songs - These are my Private Parts - by Body Safety with Ollie. Children need to know early on that not all secrets are safe, especially when it comes to their bodies. The biggest danger is that predators often use secrecy as their first weapon. They’ll say things like, “This is our little secret” or “Don’t tell anyone or you’ll get in trouble.” Kids who don’t understand the difference between safe and unsafe secrets are far more vulnerable. Why children should never keep secrets about their bodies: Protects them from grooming. Abusers almost always test a child’s willingness to keep quiet. Teaching children to never keep secrets about touching, private parts, or body feelings breaks that cycle. Builds trust and safety. If a child knows they can always tell their parents or a trusted adult, it creates a protective shield. Someone is watching out for them. Shame loses its power. Secrecy breeds shame. When children understand they’re never at fault for speaking up about body boundaries, they’re less likely to feel guilt or fear. It keeps them safer long-term. Kids who learn to talk openly about “unsafe secrets” grow up more aware of manipulation and better able to advocate for themselves. How parents should teach it: Use simple language: “There are surprises, like a birthday gift or a party. Surprises are fun, and they’re always told in the end. But secrets about your body, or anything that makes you feel scared, yucky, or confused, should never be kept. Those must always be shared.” Reinforce safety: “You will never be in trouble for telling me about your body.” Keep it ongoing, not a one-time talk. Revisit the message just like you’d remind them about looking both ways before crossing the street. The bottom line: A child who understands unsafe secrets is harder to silence. That’s why this teaching isn’t optional, it’s armour. Copyright © Learn With Ollie #thesearemyprivateparts #privatepartsong #bodysafe #songsforkids #bodysafetywithollie #bodysafe #bodyboundaries #learning #nurseryrhymes