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Expectations from others Good or bad - Dr. Sulata Shenoy

What is an expectation? An expectation is nothing but an anticipation of the future how people would behave or what events would occur or how would one be in the future. It is normal for all of us to have expectations about oneself as well as others and certainly there is nothing wrong in having expectations because that is what makes us look forward to certain events and to prepare for them. So expectations do have their own role. However It can become dysfunctional when the expectations are too high or too unrealistic. Take the large number of student suicides that happen every year during the tome of the declaration of results. Why is this so? It is because of immense pressure that is put on the students, the peers, the teachers and the parents. The parents have unrealistically high expectations of their children and start comparing with other children which makes life intolerable for the student. So one should learn how to encourage children without putting the pressure of expectations upon them. Expectations can be good or bad. We can anticipate good events to happen, good things to occur, positive fall out of actions or they can be negative or bad, in the sense you are constantly worried or in dread of misfortunes befalling oneself or others or something untoward happening which is beyond our control. So let us work on improving the good expectations from oneself and others and let us work at reducing the bad expectations. To conclude I would say, give without expectation, love without hesitation and accept without reservation. This could be your mantra top lead a happy and fulfilling life.