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Borderline's inner child is not his/her true self: it is a compendium of needs, especially the need to find a “rock”: a constant, reliable, unconditionally loving and accepting presence. A constant state of terror. Surrealistic paracosm: Impaired reality testing (e.g., paranoia, overestimation of intimacy like in HPD), psychotic microepisodes External regulation and opposite-sex parent issues. Twin anxieties: abandonment/rejection-engulfment/intimacy, approach-avoidance repetition compulsion. These anxieties plus the intensity of the interpersonal relationships devolve into idealization-devaluation (relational disorder) IDEALIZATION in shared fantasy Partner is ... GOOD MOTHER (breast) Perfect, ideal, all good Secure base: safe, trustworthy, reliable, resilient, responsive Loves unconditionally: forgiving, accepting, authentic, rewarding Power couple DEVALUATION in shared fantasy Partner is ... BAD MOMMY (breast) Imperfect, all bad, persecutory Unsafe, untrustworthy, unreliable, fragile/weak/vulnerable Manipulative, transactional, fake, denying, rejecting, frustrating Traitor, envious, passive-aggressive Identity disturbance (unstable identity, fragile sense of self) Emptiness, false self, fantasy defense. Clinical features of inner child: Self-harm, suicidal ideation, self-destructive cognitions and actions: self-punitive, silence internal turmoil, call for help, feeling alive (dead inside) Recklessness, impulsivity, secondary psychopathy Emotional volatility, affective lability, emotional dysregulation (DBT): anger, reactive mood shifts and changes Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...