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Beyond

In this episode, Lundy Bancroft, a renowned expert on narcissism, abusive relationships, and the family court system, reveals how abusive men manipulate both their partners and the legal system to maintain control. With over 30 years of experience working with abusers and training professionals, Lundy exposes the subtle and overt tactics used by high-conflict individuals to gain power in custody disputes and other legal battles. He shares eye-opening insights from his books, Why Does He Do That? and The Batterer as Parent, highlighting the systemic failures in family courts that often work in favor of abusers, despite clear evidence of harm. Lundy explains why survivors of abuse find themselves in difficult, uphill battles when trying to protect their children and the emotional toll this takes. Lundy also provides practical advice for mothers navigating high-conflict divorces and custody disputes, outlining critical steps to level the playing field and protect children from further harm. He dives deep into the biases within the legal process that enable dangerous individuals to gain access to their children, even when their behavior is abusive. Through this conversation, Lundy offers a powerful look into how the family court system operates, how survivors can reclaim their power, and the ways in which we can push back against a broken system. This episode is an essential listen for anyone dealing with narcissism, abuse, and the complexities of high-conflict divorce and custody battles. 00:00 Introduction and Topic Overview 01:01 Guest Introduction: Lundy Bancroft 02:15 Personal Insights from Lundy Bancroft 03:50 Understanding Abusers and Their Motivations 09:37 Societal Influences on Abuse 27:19 Challenges in Family Court 31:59 Abuser's Influence in Family Court 32:37 Encouraging Dads to Support Moms in Family Court 33:26 Proposed Family Court Reforms 34:07 Challenges Faced by Dads in Family Court 37:58 Psychological Evaluations in Custody Cases 40:13 Mental Health and Parenting 47:12 Finding the Right Lawyer for Your Case 51:14 Maintaining a Strong Relationship with Your Kids 54:24 Resources and Final Thoughts 🎧 Listen to the full podcast episode: 👉 iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 👉 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/465v... Connect with Lundy: Book - Not To People Like Us: https://www.amazon.com/People-Hidden-... Book - When Dad Hurts Mom: https://www.amazon.com/When-Dad-Hurts... Book - The Batterer as Parent: https://www.amazon.com/Batterer-Paren... Book - Should I Stay or Should I Go?: https://www.amazon.com/Should-Stay-Re... Book - Daily Wisdom: https://www.amazon.com/Daily-Wisdom-D.... Book - The Joyous Recovery: https://www.amazon.com/Joyous-Recover... Book - In Custody: https://www.amazon.com/Custody-Carrie... Website: https://lundybancroft.com/ Listen to Lundy's BorderlinerNotes YT episode:    • Inside the Minds of Domestic Abusers ...   Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg A word from our sponsor: TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible. We’re grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd #DivorceAndNarcissism #HighConflictDivorce #NarcissisticAbuse #CustodyBattles #FamilyCourtSystem #ProtectingChildrenFromAbuse #NarcissisticManipulation #AbusiveRelationships #CoParentingWithANarcissist #EmotionalTollOfDivorce