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How To Set Boundaries | LOA Q&A

Join the Discussion at http://www.deliberatereceiving.com Today's Burning Question is: Awesome Melissa wants to know: How can we decipher the difference between needing to set a boundary with a person versus just having our focus on the things we find less than awesome about them? Case in point - I recently started dating a man who has a lot of really great qualities, but I keep feeling like I have reservations with him because he has a habit of making underhanded and passive-aggressive remarks. I've brought it up now a few times and just said basically that I find his comments hurtful and I would like if he stop. He is recently separated and I feel like he is projecting his resentment toward his ex-wife onto me with these remarks. I know this is something I have attracted, I just don't know where the line is between 'I need to set a boundary and let this person know what is and isn't okay in how he treats me, and if he isn't game, then this is no longer a thing' and 'okay here is an opportunity to work through some shit.' At this point, I feel like I already have momentum going in the 'I need to cut this cord' direction, I just don't know if I'm being premature, although I feel a sense of relief when I think about my life sans this person.