I wanna be loved by you - The dark side of consent | Justine Mattera | TEDxFermo скачать в хорошем качестве

I wanna be loved by you - The dark side of consent | Justine Mattera | TEDxFermo

È bello sentire l'approvazione degli altri, assaporare il consenso in modo tangibile e avvolgente ci fa sentire più vicini al nostro obiettivo. Ma il lato oscuro della spasmodica ricerca di approvazione è quello che ci fa indossare delle maschere che spesso ci calzano così comode fino a farci perdere la nostra vera essenza. Sangue sudore e lacrime: lottiamo per essere noi stessi tenendo fuori tutto quello che non ci appartiene veramente. It's nice to feel other people's approval, savouring the consent in a tangible and enveloping way makes us feel closer to our goal. But the dark side of the spasmodic search for approval is the one who makes us wear masks that often fit us so much comfortable that we lose our true essence. Blood sweat and tears: we fight to be ourselves by keeping out all that does not really belong to us. Born in New York, she graduated with honors in Italian and English literature at Stanford University and then specialized at the University of Florence. In Italy, her career soared: actress, showgirl, television presenter, singer and director of films, fiction and theater. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx