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5 мартa 2023 г. Молодёжное служение

Speaker: Vladimir Omelchuk 10 Key Points of Marriage 1. Can you prove that this person is God’s Will for you? (You could marry any Christian with the fruit that the Bible takes about) 2. Are you planning on getting married to someone who is not a Christian? (If you are not of the same faith and don’t have the same foundation, the Gospel, you will constantly be in battle with who is correct. Worshiping God will allow you to be reconciled, but if you worship yourselves, you will constantly be driven apart) 3. Do you think marriage will make you happier? (Happiness does not come from unhappiness in your singleness. True happiness will come from being happy in your current situation. If you don’t love our perfect Jesus, how will you love the imperfect person? The more you prep by serving in ministries, by serving with love, the more you will equip yourself to love your future spouse) 4. Why should you get married? Each believer should be Sanctified through their marriage. Many have it confused that Sanctification will happen in the church and happiness will be in marriages (separating the two). The purpose of a biblical marriage is the sanctification between a man and wife, and a wife and husband. And happiness will be the fruit of the sanctification. Before you make moves, you should already have intentions. When you start pursuing someone, your outcomes could be marriage, outcome of fornication, or outcome of separating. 5. What about your relationship do your closest friends and family think about it? Deciding to step into marriage, without looking into the result of it, is a sign of obliviousness. Be wise and ask of the faithful people in your life for their thoughts on your relationship and ask for advice where you might need improvement, to be better in your relationship. 6. How’s your sexual purity? How are you staying Vigilant? If you have a pornography addiction and it’s now a part of your lifestyle, you will suffer the consequences. Find 3-4 people to keep you accountable. 7. How do you overcome difficulties with the Gospel? Do you have experience overcoming disagreements with the gospel? Is the Bible, the key authority to make difficult decisions? Manliness is taking responsibility for yourself and those around you. Statistics show that 50% of marriages will end in divorce because 1/2 of the marriages don’t use the Bible as a solid foundation. They use things like logic, emotions, experiences, intuition, psychology, and philosophy. Sooner or later, your marriage will fall apart if you don’t go back to the original biblical design of marriage. 8. What do you love in your future spouse? You should love and honor your spouse because God told you too. If you love for any other reason, it will be a temporary fix. Love is one-way, and sacrificial. Loving someone who doesn’t deserve it and with no expectations in return. God’s design is God officiated your marriage and God was a witness to your marriage. Society has ruined it by telling you that you could just get married in court and no even married. If you don’t get married under God, the woman has low self-esteem, and the man has no responsibility. 9. Do you know what is love? Being in love disconnects you from reality. It’s an illusion. Being in love is egoistical act. Truly loving is sacrificial. And not about you at all. 10. What do you invest your time into more now? The facade or reality? The physical does not matter right now. Think about dealing with worse, sickness, being poor. These are the top reasons marriages feel pressure. Do you make your future spouse an idol? Do you read books about biblical marriages, go to small groups where you are invested in. God will deliver a spouse to you that is a faithful servant, if you are a faithful servant yourself.