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🔴Hoovered Back, Then Ignored? What the Narcissist Is Really Doing

Please Subscribe⁨ ‪@NarcPedia‬ for various topics related to narcissism and narcissistic abuse. Let's heal and grow together! Thank You! Today, I want to address a crucial, maddening, and often heartbreaking experience that some of you might be navigating right now: being hoovered back by a Narcissist. It is a specific type of torment that feels like emotional whiplash. It’s that perplexing situation where a Narcissist expends significant effort—calling, texting, showing up, promising the moon—just to draw you back into their orbit. But then, the moment you step back in, the moment you let your guard down and open your heart again, they act as if they have absolutely no time for you. You are left holding your phone, staring at unread messages, wondering, "If you fought so hard to get me back, why are you ignoring me now? Why did you beg for my attention only to treat it like a burden?" Let's explore the underlying dynamics of this behavior, because once you understand the machinery behind the mask, the confusion begins to lift. We are going to dissect the psychology, the strategy, and the spiritual reality of this situation. To understand this, we have to look at the fuel that runs the engine of the Narcissist. For those who have experienced this, a key factor in the Narcissist's behavior is their fundamental reluctance to lose Supply. We talk about "Supply" often, but let’s really break down what that means in this specific context. To a Narcissist, Supply isn't just attention; it is emotional regulation. It is the mirror that tells them they exist. Without an external reaction—be it positive adoration or negative frustration—they feel a terrifying sense of non-existence. Many of you, as their primary source, likely represented a high-quality Supply. You were likely empathetic, resilient, resourceful, and perhaps you tolerated their behavior longer than anyone else would. You are what we might call "Grade A" Supply. They are unwilling to relinquish that. It’s not because they love you in the way you understand love—which involves care, reciprocity, and respect; it’s because they need to possess you. They view people as appliances. You don't throw away a toaster that still works, even if you bought a new microwave. You keep it on the counter, just in case. Nevertheless, due to their inherently low boredom threshold and their predisposition for deception, their disorder necessitates a constant feeding of an insatiable inner void. The Narcissist is deeply insecure at their core. Their grandiosity is a suit of armor protecting a very fragile, underdeveloped ego. This creates a perpetual need that can be likened to pouring water into a bucket with holes: no matter how much is given, it can never be truly filled. You could pour your entire soul into that bucket, your entire life force, and within a day, they are empty again, looking for the next hit. This dynamic manifests regardless of whether you initiated the discard or the Narcissist did. This is a critical distinction to make because it changes how the "Hoover" feels. "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel." #Narcissist #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #ToxicRelationships #MentalHealth #NPD #Psychology #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder