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The Psychology of People Who Are Good But Have a Dark Side

Everyone knows you as the kind one. The patient one. The one who always forgives. But they've never seen what happens when you stop forgiving. When the kindness runs out. When the patience breaks. This video explains the psychology of people who are nice but have a dark side. 🧠 What You'll Learn: • Why nice people aren't harmless, they're selective • Jung's shadow self and suppressed darkness • Reaction formation: expressing the opposite of what you feel • The difference between harmless and dangerous (Jordan Peterson) • Why suppressed anger accumulates and explodes • How nice people give subtle warnings that get ignored • Why your dark side is protective, not evil • The cold, calculated nature of a nice person's breaking point • How to set boundaries before you snap • Integrating your shadow self 📚 Scientific References: • Dr. Carl Jung - Shadow self concept • Dr. Harriet Braiker - "The Disease to Please" • Dr. Jordan Peterson - Harmless vs. dangerous • Dr. Brené Brown - Boundaries research • Dr. Robert Greene - "The 48 Laws of Power" • Dr. Gabor Maté - Childhood suppression patterns • Neuroscience of suppressed anger ⏱️ Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction: When kindness runs out 1:30 - Nice by choice, not by nature 3:00 - The shadow self and reaction formation 4:30 - Harmless vs. dangerous people 6:00 - Accumulated anger and breaking points 7:30 - The cold, final dark side 9:00 - Managing and integrating your shadow 10:30 - Final message: Kindness is a gift, not an obligation 💬 When did you stop being nice to someone? Share your story. 🔔 Subscribe for psychology of boundaries and power. #Psychology #NicePeople #DarkSide #ShadowSelf #Boundaries #DontPushMe #KindnessIsNotWeakness #NiceButDangerous #SelfProtection #Power